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Someone posted this earlier and they're right, it reminds me of so many stupid arguments put forward by Berlin male-hating feminists
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I feel like joy and happiness are taboo emotions here that must be shushed up. What is giving me that feeling? That if I smile too much or laugh too loudly, people will criticize me.
They will criticize you because they’re secretly jealous of you. “My life and the life of all Germans I know is absolutely horrible and miserable. Why does this person smile and laugh? He surely got illegal money or scammed a German or has made the life of another person a complete hell. That’s what we do here to smile. Make others suffer”
Why do people I meet who I then don’t talk to look absolutely terrified of me? Is it because I have my poop together ?
Aare there any EU cities that are easier to live in? In terms of money for being an expat and the system etc or are they all this hard? Coming from North America so it’s different but my friends from Spain even have problems
No, the whole EU continent is the same. Maybe Switzerland and Luxembourg are the exception. For other Americans coming to Europe i think we all failed for the dream that Hollywood depicts. Europe is no way close to America when it comes to making money. Not even close! America is poop too but a least you can make money and up the social scale. Europe is good for a short vacation noting more than that.
because of jews, we have this problem, when there is not jews, we don't know this problem.
These people are stingy and cheap. When you possess these two traits, you also believe being good to others costs to you, so you become extremely reserved and stingy with emotions as well. It’s what extreme cheapskatism does to you. That word doesn’t even exist, but it should have because it describes this mentality perfectly
In my experience Germans like to be extremely blunt and then you that you are too sensitive. Then they'll turn around and get so offended and emotional that they can't even form sentences when you treat them the same.
It's the place where hipsters and expat programmers meet. Everything gets downvoted to "0", because they are all a bunch of pretentious wankers that think they're better than everyone.
Did they build all German apartments with no internal sound insulation like that on purpose? Is thay some technique they popularized during stasi times to remind you that privacy here is a farce and that you'll never escape the tyranny of loud neighbors? I can literally hear my neighbors sneeze at times. How the hell is this standard of living considered normal here?
I’m so mad because I feel like I failed in Berlin. But really it’s just been such a struggle since two and a half years to keep my head above water. If I had known was so bad in retrospect I would have gone about it differently but at the same time I found out who I was. More professional and not compromising for what I want in life. And maybe someone with a bit more of a plan that would always be uncomfortable in Berlin when everyone around is wandering aimlessly. It put me in some bad places. At times I did get aimless/ really I feel I had wasted some time. If I come here again, I come on a sublet and with the money to execute the plan which I should have done to begin with except I had no money. Don’t move to Berlin. Just sublet.
It should not be “if I come back here again”. It should be “once I’m out I’m out!”. Made the mistake of coming back here after leaving some years ago. I forgot how bad it was and thought it had something to do with me. After I build something for me in another country I though I can really achieve something here. BOY WAS I WRONG! Now its back to building an escape plan and tear down all bridges
The extreme lack of public toilets affects women far more than men. Women have to choose between paying a fee every single time they have to go, or exposing themselves in public. Meanwhile men just easily piss against a tree, or against a dumpster, a gutter, a wall, off a subway platform...Also women have to deal with periods, and are more likely to be caring for children and elderly who need restroom facilities. Let me tell you about the time I got my period, out in public, on a freaking Sunday that was also a church holiday and all the shops were closed and there was not a city toilette to be found.
Fees to use restrooms add up, but this is not an issue because it doesn't affect men so badly. Tell me again how Berlin is so progressive.
That is one thing that also get me angry. No free toilets anywhere. I was shouted at many times when simple walking pass the toiletpeople. Once I pushed through one of those gates (i never have cash on me) and the toiletperson saw me over the camera. guess what he followed me to the toilet
I'm sick of the trash and graffiti everywhere. I'm sick of the overgrown weeds and yellow stringy sickly plants and dirt patches. No gardens flourish here. All the plants look half-dead and they are struggling to find sun. I'm sick of the false summer. I hate going out to enjoy nature in the parks and know I might come across men pissing out in the open, sucking each other off, doing drugs or selling drugs. I'm sick of the areas in parks where the ground stinks like urine and there are shreds of tissue and toilet paper everywhere.
And what's with freaking stinging nettle plants everywhere? And the landscapers just freaking leave them there to grow. What person in their right mind thinks "Yeah a poisonous plant taking up half the walkway here... Let's just leave it"? Imbeciles, the entire darn country.
And yeah, amazing that even the women here will have a piss out in the open. Was walking along a shaded path a few weeks ago. Some woman was pissing right on the actual path. Thought I was in a filthy porno or something but no - it's just Germany.
we were sitting in britzer garten, a nicely maintained park and you even have to pay a small entry. so we enjoy nature and eat there on a bench when some f*cking dude walks up behind us with his little daughter, walks into the bushes next to us, i already know what is coming, and yes: he lets her pee on the tree next to us.
savages. disgusting. typical.
I guess the thing that bothers me most about Berlin is the insistence that everything here is the best. How Berlin is a happy, open, free, vibrant place to be or something. It makes me feel like shiiiiiit, what is the rest of the region like if this is considered open and vibrant and non-racist?!
You arrive in Berlin to work for one of those big IT companies ( which IT companies?) , can’t find a job then try your luck as Freelance Graphic Designer or Yoga Teacher, don’t get paid enough, take a side job as a Barrista, get fired, take Hart4, getting broke, return home!
the u8 is a freaking freakshow. today some guy asked everyone on the train for cigarettes only wearing shorts. no t-shirt and no shoes and socks. when he left some other messed up person took his place asking for coins. freaking retards
when u have a one night stand and have to sexual act off once you are home. fornicate hook ups
“Sex” lol. I feel you
I also had to go home to get myself off. Seems German men and expats alike get more out of playing games than a nice encounter. Idiots this doesn’t have to be always about power?!????? It’s supposed to just be a nice time between two people ?!??