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Next time Germany says it’s the best at __ whatever ask them why. Oh wait, you can’t ask “why” in Germany because there is no freedom of speech and everyone has a child temper tantrum when you don’t blindly accept the rules that are arbitrary
Anyone here gonna download the new Corona app that was made by the German secret service... Oops I mean the biggest German companies (Telekom, SAP - best examples of corporate socialism)?
I hate Berlin. I hate this city so much. I've lost myself here. I used to have energy and at least some confidence and now nothing makes sense. This place is so bleak and gray and the people look at me like I'm weird and nobody's reactions make sense. i'm now an insomniac and I alternate between never speaking and picking fights. I was not like this before I came here. I feel like I'm trying to do an impersonation of a regular person living life meanwhile I have lost touch with anything that makes me feel normal. Everytime I speak my mind I regret it because I get such weird reactions. Either there is some weird energy here from all the accumulated bad history, or there is a weird culture with repressed intergenerational trauma, or just soviet bleakness plus deliberate trashiness, idk
The thing with the dark energy is that i have actually experience supernatural things there. It does exist. You are intuitive meaning you shouldn’t live in Berlin. So many bad things happened there. In some indigenous cultures in North America they believe the theory of bad land. Berlin, bad things happened there. It’s the same reason why you wouldn’t go live in auschwitz
It's kind of amazing häh? just fits with so many things, you could almost have it as automatic thing and it would feel right. Not saying there is all there is to it. It's just how you should feel. Yesterday I was at the post and the guy (from India) had to glue the retour paper onto the parcel. But do you think he actually felt pissed? No, he used it to guilttrip. It's not too hard to voice about it once you see it. he also acted like I was weird for asking if they sell single envelopes. And I said Why do you act like there was something wrong with asking. There is absolutely nothing strange about this question. One gotto find a way to express about the nonsense. What do you say to these Döner people who act all big deal about nothing? Have you ever asked yourselves? Does it make sense to act that way? If you say mitnehmen bitte!, that is a boundary actually, that is not a refusal to answer his question of zum Mitnehmen bitte?! The idea is that you kinda start small and normal and if they make you repeat that would only increase what you said, and it is something they don't "like" to hear. Here are some expressions, might be inspiring, not nec. for saying it to somebody: 1. Dude, wtf are you trying to say? That you treated her friendly and me not? (when you did not feel treated unfriendly but now he acts like it) Do you think I care? Do you think I fuc.king care? 2. Yeah, maybe but I don't care about that. I just want it to work, you know. 3. Wtf is up? Something is up. You fuc.king idiots tried to give me the shi.t, Idk how the fuc.k you did it. Just look at you, you look fuc.king guilty. Something you should be ashamed about for sure. I don't even wanna figure it out. 4. There's people walking here dude. Is that a surprise to you? 5. Do you wanna tell me you can't say hello, because the he still said something? (It's not about that she has to greet one, it's about the dumbness) (Also everything of this is expressive, so it can either be angry or light, it's not moodpredefined is what I mean) 5. Nonono I just told you. 6. Häh? Ick hab Ihnen dit doch grade jesagt. (you don't wanna let it go by) 6. What is this act? 7. Definitely not (to someone who is like OH! Can you take me with you? when you are in an elevator and there is enough time for her to get in (you were "joking") 8. The Indian guy I wrote about, since he is all fos, it makes sense to laugh when in his case the glue didn't stick or to say: Mann man man jetzt stelln Se sich mal nich so an. Just glue it. Did you do apprenticeship? (wondering) That's a bluffcall, he shud be offended about it but he isn't because he is fos. But there is no intention to cause him misery, that would make no sense as for what the expression is. 9. Well, how else do you wanna do it? (He "asked" if he should glue it) At first it seems unfriendly or rude but it isn't. 10. Well, how can I know? 11. Calm down dude, I just wanna bring away some bottles (no wagon) Well, how should I know that I need a wagon for that? You wanna tell me that I did this intentionally? ...You need a wagon...I have no (fuc.king) problem with that! 12. Are you trying to confuse me? 13. Well, who says that would be a problem for me?? //I think originally he was offended but he got lost with it. 14. It's actually possible to ask back to a question.
I'd just like to remind everyone of the german insults law. I am being charged 8k at the moment for insulting a german which I am trying to get out of . This said german did this repeatedly but I happened to send it via sms, just a vague instule, even though they were way worse verbaly. So anytime a german insults you remember you should tell them you know about the insults law and record it and if they continue to harass you say you will go to the polive. but never insult one via facebook or sms.
You can never tell a german man that he's done something wrong. He will drag you down until he claims you are even worse than him and you end up apologizing. Oh my god I never had these kind of arguments before, feels like talking to someone whose development stalled in adolescence. Actually maybe it is all men who do it but germans have the weirdest tactics.
I’m becoming a paranoid in this country. If any German is ever interested or even kind to me, I catch myself wondering how they want to benefit from me. I don’t trust germans one bit. They are savages by default, so any kind of kindness makes me crazy. This country is driving me insane.
I need to come back to Berlin for a few days soon and tbh I’m a bit worried I’ll get sucked back into it so thank you berlin hater for helping me not. I’ll be checking this and posting to keep myself sane.
A few days is fine, just don't live there. That's the problem, Berlin is great for a weekend or even a week or two, and that's what sucks you in, but once you live here, that's it, it all starts to change incrementally, until one day you wake up and you realise you have lost your spirit, mind and soul.
When my friends back home found out I had a German boyfriend, they congratulated me. Why is having a German boyfriend considered so great? I’m trying to get rid of the guy, I can’t stand him or Germans anymore. Terrible partners. No wonder half of the marriages fail in this country
my fabourite are the 50 years old still pretending berlin isnt dead and its the 90s and their lives are really going somewhere.
LMAO www.berlin.de/polizei/polizeimeldungen/pressemitteilung.944554.php
Some dudes got into a fight and a woman told a bystander to quit being a homosexual and break up the fight. Then that homosexual went to the police and reported her. What a retarded country where so ething like that is even possible.
Germans most used emoji is the “see no evil” monkey which pretty much sums up their response to life
Is the two week isolation still happening upon entering Germany before moving on to another country if you are coming from outside EU
Why are Germans so obsessed with house shoes? Why do they have those nasty felt house shoes for guests that 100s of others have used before with zero cleaning?
This place is like a magnet for traumatized children. For example today why I shut down when germans yell at me is because my dad yelled at me when I was a kid. But an abusive environment felt normal so that’s why I put up with Berlin when I was there instead of saying “you know what fornicate that”
And The entire culture is narcissistic. Your abusive parents are the freaking state, anmeldung, xenophobia, putting your name on your door, being watched constantly and scolded. And then people wonder why so many foreigners end up there who are fucked. Mix that with drugs and poverty and long parties and you just have a recipe to ignore your pain never deal with it and never heal from it
I miss Berlin but really I miss my friends in Berlin because now I have to move to new place and make new friends. I also pity my friends in Berlin. I also wonder where my friends in Berlin lives are going. I also have some codependency issues and need to grow up because I felt Berlin made me like teenager again. So now I have to regain my adult stable life back in a place with adults. Its hard but its the only way....