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Visit KVBerlin.de, i reccomend half of these paople here, you can find pszchologist paid by Krakenverzigung
Wouldn't visit a German psychologist even if someone paid me to. I don't need SSRIs, I don't need some old kiddie diddler asking about my childhood and I sure as hell don't want to talk to someone who willingly settled down in this trash pit to tell me about how to live my life.
After coming back after few years in Berlin i warn ppl from IT and all other to never think about it as a resonable career life choice, if you are young after 20's and want to quickly make experience or just party over the whole nights in clubs and dont remember what have you done last week then maybe ok for some time, if you really love germany go to munich, hamburg any other bigger city, but dont make mistake coming to this craphole
I have lived here for 10 years and only a few years ago I fully understood how much of an actual idiot this city is. Both locals and visitors are desperately trying to pretend it’s still great, anything they say sounds entirely brainwashed and at times it feels like living in a cult. It’s become hard to meet any people who aren’t outright obsessed with the filthy drug-club culture and fake positivity/nihilism. I stopped feeling welcome in this city because of the constant passive aggression, judging stares and people invading my privacy, I just feel like you cannot feel free in Berlin unless you entirely comply with the default “lifestyle” most people have here. That said, it’s all in addition to the real estate crisis, expensive public transportation, university professors/staff who don’t give a shit, very one-dimensional selection of music events and other leisure activities... The only things the city if worth visiting for is literally history, some museums and the nature. I would not willingly come back to live here long-term, every day you feel like you’re being slowly poisoned.
Umm nature? It’s a sand-filled bog. This whole strip of land between east Germany and Poland had the dullest, most uninspiring nature I have ever laid eyes on. The grass is faded, like the people’s souls. The trees look dreary. There is hardly any evergreen so the winters are bleakly bare. And as for the lakes... algae and waves of Nazi scenes conjure up in my mind. And of course dog poo. The novelty of these lakes soon fades.. and they sort of look like ditches. Then one hears the shrill screams from the Fräuleins or Staccato barks from the men-beasts, as they demonstratively colonise the banks with their nude carcasses.
If you work freelance, make all of your clients pay you at least 50% upfront. Even if you teach English. Berliners are notorious for screwing over expats. Even better, do not accept freelance positions. Just go home.
I found this site two weeks ago. I observed the same stuff you guys are talking about... Racism, hate, jealousy, staring, aggression, lying, stealing, violence, drug abuse, alcoholism, xenophobia, rudeness, no trustworthy people, hopelessness, feminism, lefty crime, stalking... Four weeks and I'm out! I'm going to try to stay at home until I leave. I don't want anybody to fornicate this plan up.. You never know. Wish you guys the best of luck and thanks for motivating me to get out of this hellhole.
How would you define androphobia? Is it the fear of tall women? Or is it the fear of men? Or the fear that a woman might be right? If a woman has a good argument, is she a man then? Or is it the so called lack of attractiveness ? Or is attractiveness the mere ability of a woman to shut her mouth?
So much for group therapy
hey guys. I am observing this site since couple days. I dont like berlin, to be honest i hate it and want to leave as soon as possible. But the people and some rasict and ugly words and posts here make me belive that i am leaving from exactly those people. A lot of you guys here act like germans and i dont want to be a part you.
I dont want to end up like a loser here.
Wish you gyus luck.
I am quite sure those guys are germans or some Trump suckers. But belive me they are for a good reason in berlin. If they are expats no wonder they don't find a way to live comfortably in this city. Even if its pure shit. Those guys are heavy losers. poop on them. They belong to this city like Corona
Is Germany lying about coronavirus deaths? Compare the deaths in Germany to the deaths elsewhere. Every other country with similar rates of infection has had deaths. Why has Germany magically been able to snub off the virus's death rate of 3.4% (according to the WHO). And why are there so few recoveries in Germany? Something doesn't add up.
I'm supposed to finally leave Germany next month because of a new job, now I am afraid I won't be let out of the country because of the virus :'(
Germany is now ranked number 5 for total cases of coronavirus, right after Italy. If you think that more countries aren't going to start refusing entry to people travelling from Germany then you're an idiot.
Is it possible to change careers in Germany? It certainly doesn't seem like it to me and I have never met anyone who has really done so. I'm not talking about being in accounting and then moving to controlling, I mean an actual career change. Seems like everyone wants specialized education + 2 years of internships for any job. Why?
Yeah, there is no flexibility as everyone thinks you need special training for everything. They have vocational training to be a sales advisor or being a cashier. Both are jobs you do between school and uni or alongside uni, there is no vocational training necessary. Germans are so dumb though that unless you have a paper that says you are xyz, you cannot start a career. People here also don't understand the idea of transferable skills.
And may I add that for easy jobs like that there is unnecessary training but for skilled jobs, at least in certain companies, there is no training. You are just expected to teach yourself the job and have no kind of vocational training like a graduate programme or something.
There are 2 kind of homeless: the ones who behave and the ones who attack you verbally and cough right in your face -in times of Corona or not. Actually, everyone loves those cute homeless if the second Kind here. They are "tres chic" in Berlin.
Smart move by Israel as per usual. If Germany had done this 2 weeks ago we wouldn't have any cases here.
news.yahoo.com/israel-severely-restricts-entry-europe-due-virus-204340338.html
Only doing f*ing monkey business with 2faced morons who force me into being 2faced too. Makes me insane.
Too many Criminal Ugly Arab Monkeys,they should be deported immediately.
Ok guys. Take a look here. The OP of this thread is the best example of what happens if you stay too long in germany. He is lost. He has the virus of morons. He is german now and there is no way of healing. Stupid, judgy, full of hate, right loser same like left loser, he become that berliner loser we fornicate on this site everyday. I am sorry man, but you are infected. You will rott in in germany. ☮️
you stupid loser we are not protecting arabs. we are protecting ourselves to become a poop like you. we are protecting us from this city. biggest fear is ending like you. and i am sure. you are not even a expat. you are some germnan losers who lost themself on this site. fornicate off
Does anybody feel like Germans are judgemental? It feels like they're either being way too critical or impatient, or just giving off this constant vague feeling of judginess. German friends tell me I'm imagining it, but it's doing my head in.
Yeah, it's because German society is so perfectionist. There is no way of getting through the system without being hypervigilant and jumping through so many unnecessary hoops. It is a corrective culture and being right is the highest ideal. This comes before thinking about your own or others feelings. But I don't think it is because Germans have no feelings, they have just been trained to focus their mind on rules and details so they can survive and not be ostracised in this environment. It's possible that their judgemental look comes from them constantly scanning to see whether they are conforming to whatever rules are in that place by first cooly observing.
Why would you ask your Germans friends about a critique about their culture? Of course they gonna say it’s in your head. I would the judgment of other people is obvious as the sun is out. You might wanna get some new friends. Your Germans friends will turn on you if you talk too much about their culture in a bad way.
No, they have weak minds because they don't feel their feelings. It's that simple. Many thoughts are not in itself but feel-related. Instead they try to make sense from this 2% life. Your soul or you is being not valued by that. Think about it, feelings were always undermined early on in life. It's freaking obvious and a poopeasy topic.
How do you feel you might wonder. Naturally it already comes up. Construction noise, you might feel like SHUT UP!! pure good anger, feeling comes up effortless expression. Even though the noise not vs you, doesn't matter. That would be the wild version, it's also never really offensive a pure feel, often the mistake is to push when the feel is not even there. It's also the clear difference to a provoked reaction. And then of course normal things we say, Can you not watch out? It's surely about sense, but it also makes sense to feel. If done correctly so to speak, it shud make you feel warm and understood and interestingly when after anger one feels better, we tend to say the same things lightly. It's surely about saying true things. And people often dump their feelings and that makes them not sane, they might just feel better but talk a lot of shit. True things you don't need to argue, it's nothing to defend, just happens to be as it is.
Man, you just don't get it. It's about valueing a feel bc it is there. Of course there is so many other feelings. I am talking feelings that were repressed. Often stuff you don't even want to look into bc you already feel. By not feeling you don't value yourself. All you see is that it was crazy, but tell me is thunder crazy? Surely if you question it you can't actually feel, if you try to judge it. But it's there, so wtf wud it be. It lightens you up, it's like love or also is, where the fuk do you think all the love is, gotto be somewhere. Not bout to tell sb to shut up. There is many things to say, how it expresses. It not even need selfconsciouness but even if, all it wud do is connect you back to life and feeling, you can anyway only do one.