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What is wrong with Berlin Men?
They're so strange when it comes to love.
It's almost like they're uncapable of loving anyone, or picking the right partner in the first place.
I've been told that i'm a pretty women quite often in my life, and i dress in a very feminine way. ( Dresses, long hair, and high heels). Berlin Men approach me a lot, and make me believe that they would be interested in a relationship for me, just to tell me later on, that they need space and need to meet other women. It seems to me that Berlin Men, love making the wrong choices. They love masculine huge women, who resemble NBA Players.
More often then not, they're quite ugly, and have awful personalities too.
At first i believed it was me who was shallow and weird, until i met american/english/spanish etc. men in Berlin. They were instantly attracted to me, and were genuinely interested in a real relationship. They also looked about ten times better than the average Berlin Men, and behaved like real men. ( No feminist female reproductive organ shit) .
Why is it that the expat men , are better looking and also have better personalities? Did Berlin's left way of thinking destroy traditional relationships?
And why are Berlin men so disgustingly thin and wear such feminine clothes?
I've yet to see an english/american man dress like that.
I'm absolutely lost and sick and tired of this awful city. NO LOVE FOR BERLIN.
Considering how much Bratwurst the average woman in Western Europe gets, I could never get into a committed relationship with one of them. FWB agreement at best, ONS at worst.
Btw did you really expect a German robot to feel love? The only thing close to love a german can feel is that mild excitement he experiences when his local football team wins a match.
At least 30% of the German population has some mental disorder (I would bet my life savings that the percentage in Berlin is much higher) while only very few actually receive professional treatment.
ebmh.bmj.com/content/ebmental/8/1/28.1.full.pdf
You sound just like that "hot busty girl with a good personality."
Maybe your oversized ego, neediness and entitlement drives men away.
Just take a chill pill. who wants a serious relationship with berliners anyway?
I am sure you are overrating your looks because you take all your selfies with heavy filters.
You sound like the type to do so. Insecure female with entitlement issues.
Doesn't matter if she has self respect, which is sadly lacking across Berlin as seen in the laughable wages and nightly in the AIDS clubs all over the city. It is a proven fact that Germans suffer from mental illness at rates much higher than the OECD average. Country literally full of retards.
Berlin population growth is grossly exaggerated. After the recession a decade ago people flocked out of Berlin in droves and it took half a decade to reach normal levels again. The past few years have seen 50k people moving to Berlin per annum, but average that over a decade and the housing shortage is laughably manufactured. Any normal city with a free market and educated statisticians and civil engineers would have been able to handle this problem.
www.statista.com/statistics/505892/berlin-population/
Your weekly reminder that the Rigaer Straße lefties are violent thugs:
www.berlin.de/polizei/polizeimeldungen/pressemitteilung.689332.php
and unless there is no freaking whore?,
Never make a compliment to German women. They do not know what it is and they cannot return it! If you let the German woman first in the door, she will automatically start to treat you as a submissive person and may even start to insult you and mock you. You must behave arrogant to German women, you must ignore them, or you must act aggressively and talk to them vulgar. Then everything will be fine.
Compliments and politeness only towards women is called opportunity special treatment - and has nothing to do with respect or good manners. I know one "gentleman" who is still virgin at 38, he's always polite and give compliments to women only. What a jerk.
Today I saw at Alexanderplatz Easter Marketplace. If someone hadn't exchanged stars for the Hare, I'd think it was Christmas. I thought I was in hell!
My Berliner ‘boyfriend’. A robot with no feelings that runs away when I am in a stressful situation and ignores me for some days, hence to cool off, so after we can be again empty dumbshits, bored to death that don’t talk about anything serious. We had an argument about it and his fake and phony ‘I care’ pose and now he’s out of reach again. I’m not sure if I am extra-needy or he is just messing with my mind. I never asked any help from anyone( too proud) . I have these heavy heart moments at times when I want to talk to someone and in my head my partner is a go-to point. He implies he cannot fix me and keeps saying I should try therapy. Wtf??? Who said I am broken? I have nonetheless lots of skepticism when it comes to shrinks, no way I am going to take serious a shrink here... All these female genitalia always considering therapy even when some raised the tone at them. This guy is a cancerous cell with his ‘support’
Leave him, this does not any good to you, and you have done nothing wrong, german mens are another specie, and there is nothing you can do about it. Run away, and never date a german again, if you want real and warm love, advise from someone who dated some. They all have the same problem, so you don't need any therapy, they do, so just stop this unhealthy relation before it will make you feel like this city make us feel. And leave this city if you can, before it crushes your soul till you feel as miserable as the Berliners. RUN!
Better yet, first ask him point blank why he is so typically German. Ask him how it is possible that a grown man is incapable of processing emotions and offering support. Tell him calmly that you are leaving him because he is completely useless as a human being and he should thank his lucky stars that he was born in the most inhumane region of earth where his lack of social skills and tact go unnoticed. Then pack your bags and leave this shithole.
youtu.be/zi8ShAosqzI Typical German Cuck with glasses :)
otbelilish point one neighbor others may Resentment,
In the UK at the moment, and it just feels so much more alive here. I must have had at least 40 "microinteractions" with strangers today, ranging from mutually apologising for bumping into one another to a quick chat at a checkout. All were positive, none were agressive, and it's just nice to interact with other humans as you go about your day. Berlin is so miserable!
It's because people are not in the natural flow of life and always think they gotto do something special. They don't know how to do it. They think it's gotto be done controlling and with big effort. You gotto feel free to just be, but here it is more that people have the eye on themselves and don't realize the absurdity of it since it makes it technically not possible. People just say things, empty words plus the energy of trying and staring..it doesn't stimulate. breaks the flow. I remember this one interaction at the checkout where the woman working there said , wait here is the dialogue
Good evening (looks other way, starts interacting with somebody in the queue)
no reply
Did I say Good evening?
Yeah, but the other way
It's bad isn't it (some kinda irony from hell)
Well, it's technically not possible :)
*peaceful confusion*
I didn't feel good about replying to her though in the first place. She pretty much ignored me passive-aggressively, so if I had been in my right mind I had probably replied either nothing cause she just ignored me or something like a detached You did. That being said as it went it was still interesting and it's not like a braggy win smile, but something serious and a bit of relief I felt.
I am exhausted. Every day I go home-work and nothing else. At my job I have a clear “inferior” label for being non-German. At first I got super anxious about it, but slowly I got numb and accepted my faith. I am not social anymore because it’s so painful and fake and fornicate ups my mind when I even try. At time it makes me feel the issue and it seems I need to measure everything I say, do around everyone because no one is genuinely open and no matter how friendly, nice or open I try to be when meeting new people, there’s always a cringing feeling of being weird or dumb because of it. I was a lively person, not with a majestic self confidence but quite comfortable with myself. Since I came to Berlin I only grow my insecurities and depression. I am just hiding at home in my spare time and think on how to avoid any (little) social interaction I get invited to. I feel like those invites are painfully extended to me anyway. I don’t want to be friends with anyone anymore or going out with my coworkers after hours. I am tired of trying.
And I look ugly as fuck. I am a woman and I used to care for the way I dress, the way I look when I go outside, putting a bit of makeup and perfume... being feminine. Now I am a pile of poop with bad pale skin, dark circles around my eyes and permanent dropped down corners of my lips. And I dress in baggy, faded colours... I am turning into some gloomy ghost
I have the exact same feeling, i wrote a post below, im leaving in 5 months from this hell...and i can feel you, i used to dress very feminine and now i have ranger boots that i don"t care about, because they gonna get destroy by drunk berliners, and a depressing "berliner" uniform... even yesterday i received a beautiful feminine top (black sheer with velvet flowers) as i was trying to convice myself i could wear it here, i showed it to one of my coworker friend, which is an expat, but a real berliner now, and she laughed at me saying" hahahaha where you gonna wear that! it's underground here!! with evil laughts"... that sums up everything...
If you want we can have a drink, to try to not turn into one of those berliners!! let me know! :)