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What I learned from being in a relationship with a German (it’s OK, you can judge...) :
After half a year, still no closeness and togetherness
Gaslighting at its finest
You do not matter. You say “ I am not OK with this” you’ll get a passive hint to deal with it
Eventually, when you’ll get angry at times, you’ll be made to feel bad for your feelings
You’re not allowed to confront
You’re not allowed to set boundaries, you’ll get another hint that they’re not to be respected anyway
You’ll feel helpless and your self-esteem will diminish
You’ll think you do something wrong, at times you’ll get weak and desperate
You’ll want positive change, but it would never come, rather prolong your suffering and desperation
When you’d mention a resolution or you’d want to go, you’ll be called controlling and using ultimatums for it
And when you finally get tired of it, and start focusing on you own well-being, you’ll destroy every single bit of them and they’ll become the desperate ones, haunting them for long time and adding to their misery, because clearly you owe them something that you’re not willing to give anymore
I just wish there were some good German women, but I've come to believe they are all narcissistic gaslighters. Always negative, always complaining, always putting you down for something that isn't 100% the way they want it. Italian females are much nicer to be around. But at the moment I'm totally OK with going MGTOW, German women have turned me off the idea of relationships. I'm surprised at how calmly happy I feel every day with my new MGTOW life, no pressure to conform to someone else's unrealistic expectations of me. Free as a bird.
FUCKCK YOU RUDE PIECE OF SH.IT PEOPLE! Just because you're too stupid to get what I meant or the direction of it makes you clearly the fukking idiots. Hahaha, unreal debiles. You lame sheep pathetic people! Feeling better amongst yourselves at the cost of an individual. YOU FUKKING LAME PUSSIES! How you like that for a feel? I CAN GIVE YOU SOME MORE FIRE IF YOU WANT! I was merely writing something (while admittedly being also off), so I couldn't really kick your lousy asses. You fukking losers. God bless.
I am only being me, don't have the time to be the -anti vaxxer --the MGTOW guy(although I consider myself one)
-the anti Antifa guy - and I am clearly not the receipts guy :-D
They don't care about other people around them when they walk, ride a bicycle, or skateboard.
They simply act like they are alone on the road and do whatever they want without considering you.
Do you have the same observation or Is It only me?
Picture a New Yorker trying to make it in Berlin. Now, picture a Berliner trying to hack it in New York
Lol, Berliners would not make it in New York City. Wait, I don’t want to generalize but most can’t live outside of Germany. Besides, Americans would call them out on their weird behavior. Have of the poop they pull would result in them getting their butt kick or worse. NewYork City is a real city not a village pretending to be a city. Oh, yes! The one above. Buddy, why don’t you cut the Zionists crap. Grow up and shut your freaking mouth.
Did anyone here come to Berlin to make art and if so what do you think of these alleged artists
One year later and nobody working in customer service has yelled at me or hung up since I left Berlin. Nobody has glared at me randomly, yelled at me about my nationality, tried to make me feel bad about where I am from. Nobody has crashed into me on the road or stared at me in public.
I’ve been betrayed and used by ( Germans and expats) these toxic people in this place. I have been thinking how certain( men and women) people could be that (subtle) evil. The word is “ Covert narcissist.” It would be nice to hear anyone’s experience on this subject.
On a daily basis, mon cher...
I am having a very hard time in my workplace because of these people.
Nothing I have ever experienced so far. Lack of humanity...
They would let one drown in sight, if helping another human would mean getting their pants wet...
I suffer a lot, but with this pandemic crap, I have to ingest it until better days...
Months ago, I told all you stupid imbeciles still in Berlin, not to trust the vaccines, now when you fly your blood will clot quicker and you'll have a much greater chance of suffering from DVT. Oh well, sheep will be sheep. Keep buying the fear they're selling you. Go and get another jab, you Dumb as sh1t fvckwits.
OMG, i cant beliebte it! On December I'm leaving Berlin guys! IM ĹEAVING BERLIN!!!! YAY!!!!
I wish berlinhater had a billboard right at warshauer st
I had a thought just now - where did we think we were actually going anyway? you know?
1) East Germany was a Soviet Satellite State, but not part of the Soviet Union, so no „Soviet socialists“
2) The Wall went up in 1961, not 1945
3) All Germans were nazis before 1945 but somehow you’re talking about soviets, you anti antifa scum. Soviets liberated Europe from nazis. They did some horrible things but this one was good. They didn’t do their job so well, though, and anti antifa like you are still alive
"whose name wasnt released for privacy reasons"......??
infotel.ca/newsitem/eu-germany-serial-rape/cp63810606
I don’t understand how this society finds foreigners so strange and exotic. Foreigners have filled Berlin over the last twenty years minimum. Why stare and harass them? Why exoticize? They are everywhere ???
“ It is as if they are staring at a wall. except they are staring at you and do not break eye contact when you look.”
This is true. Their behavior makes me uncomfortable. I’ve said this before physically I’m not worried about them. But, they give me a bad vibe that says something is wrong, something is off with them mentally. Working with them and daily interactions with them proves my point. Anyway, there is no need to go into full details. I’m sure we all have experience the same thing dealing with them. When I go outside I keep my eyes straight so not to look at them. I just pretend I don’t see them. I have to do this so I don’t lose my temper. The way they stare is rude and disrespectful on all levels. I know I can’t beat the poop out of all of them. It’s impossible! So to keep my sanity until I leave. I just pretend I don’t see them when I’m out. These people lost my respect a long time ago.
www.reddit.com/r/germany/comments/mtqcyq/bullying_in_the_work_place_long/
There is no communication happening in this country. Everything is being handled by passive aggressiveness, letters or being sued. I am laughing but I feel also sad about that foreign couple who need to deal with German.
Fortunately, I work globally where my interaction with Germans are minimal
Yes reminds me of when I went to my ex house to say hi because I was drunk (never stopped by before even once) and he called police on me, then filed a report saying I had invented a relationship in my head and that he “thought” I was outside waiting for him every night with a knife. fornicate this country
If you’re no longer in Germany, then blast that kraut‘s phone with all the nasty crap you can ever think of! I‘d get a new prepaid sim just to fornicate with him and laugh.
Thinking he’s shutting his pants at night.
To keep him on his toes, you know.
Be the karma he needs
Yesterday I tool a long stroll through Mitte, through the area where all the embassies are. The streets were EMPTY. And not only that, it was also clean and the buildings were really nice to look at. Everybody else in Berlin seemed to be cramped in Prenzlauer Berg or Kreuzberg in their filth. And there it occurred to me - how great this city COULD be. How much potential there is. But I have been living here for 4 years now - I heard this 'potential' talk for too long. How can one let such a great potential go to waste? And for what? For social welfare scroungers and 'sexual liberation' freaks? People from poorer countries would die to have half the opportunities that the overprivileged Berlin population has. Berliners are just too stupid, lazy and filthy to take them and make their place a nice city to live in.
Anything beautiful and classy is frowned upon here. It is a deeply communist society plus still suffering from WW2 trauma. The mindset of most people is still in the sixties or seventies when it was cool to rebel against anything considered bourgeois. As the average age of the population is 47 (!), guess how many folks here are still from the 60es rebel generation and frown upon anything "elitist". I have seen people earning 100k spending their holidays in run down camping sites. It is considered classy here!
One reason I left Berlin is because I like to dress up. and i dont even make that much money, but I try to not look like a bum. So tell me, how come a pair of 300 euro sportswear shoes, 200 euro track jacket and pants, is better than less than the same price of a different style?
why is it ok to spend money on designer sportswear but not other styles? fetish wear is also expensive? what the hel
I turned into a bum in Berlin, but when I do scrub off, the stares are... awkward.
I don’t do the whole fake lashes, fake nails, extensions crap, only a classy liner and some lipstick, my go to look since forever...
Still, you are a darn alien to them.
I got some nice, simple boots with a bit of heel, I wore them about 3x ...
I forgot how nice is to feel good with yourself when you prep yourself to look good, as you’d rather avoid the unwanted creepiness
I just can't stop think about how I have wasted my youth times in this country. I am beyond regretful