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Maybe why German are such assholes is because they don’t take acid or psychedelics. They just take ketamine (which makes you feel the world is under your control like a video game) or speed or ghb. No.
I don't think that's it. I doubt an average person you seen on the street in any country uses psychedelics and yet outside of Germany they're all generally decent people. All the weird club kids probably are a special case as the guy above said, but I think Germans are just assholes by societal torture.
"its different than your home country" AKA: a justification for being racist
"we are not racist". YES, you are racist. Otherwise, why would someone say you are racist. repeatedly. imbeciles.
We should just start telling germans that they should go home and that we don’t want them here. That they will never Be happy here and if they don’t like it, they can leave.
SHOUTED AGAIN ON THESE GERMAN RETARDS TO GET THE JOB DONE.........BASTARDS DONT UNDERSTND CIVILTY LETS SEE IF THE JOB GETS DONE OR NOT..........
with berliners i used to think they had gone through some really serious trauma which explained their lack of compassion and distanced nature. But i think its just called living in berlin. It slowly suffocates you and makes you afraid of intimacy.
It's actually trauma. Children are just fine by default. I'm just saying. It's very collective, lots of fears. Blame is a big thing when often it's noone's fault. Surely many people turn into some real suckers and who said anger was ever bad for someone. But yeah they are warped. It's of no use as for a solution what I wrote. Often we feel fallcies. Just free to say whatever, why I wrote it.
i really want to avoid negativity or being myself negative, but this place is the only place where i can freely speak about all the bs i have to go in this horrible city.
today i was yelled by some cret*n working for my apartment complex. apparently, you can’t even take your dog for a simple walk here. you might actually get humiliated for doing nothing. and there’s absolutely no thing you can do about it, not unless your are german and have some sort of support. but this is another thing i noticed. no matter how hard of an unfairness you’ve experienced, it doesn’t compare to the minor one of a german. as long as you have a foreign name/look you are automatically treated as less than a citizen, even less than a woman. and all these young pieces of sht preaching communi*m... as an eastern european myself i’d just love to punch them myself. sometimes i feel so bad about the beautiful nature of berlin, for it’s the only good thing here. the people, especially the native ones, are worse than the scum displayed on every street corner(‘by all those uncivilized foreigners’ they surely believe...)
that might be true, but that is no excuse for their own weirdness and rudeness. and by any eastern european(and not only) standards, they’re deadly arrogant and have to impose their useless opinions on everyone that they can reach. for example, this out of place comment
North Americans also believe this.
So do Spanish. So do Chinese. So do Eastern Europeans. So do Brazilians.
The problem is with Berliners, not with you, even though they love to tell you that YOU are the problem and that you are lucky to live in their beautiful city (or go home). And there’s nothing you can do.
I’m sure if we ever stood up to them, you know it’s illegal to insult people right, you’d get thrown in jail. I’m trying to understand why they go about life living this way. It is so terrible, the way they live. So negative and so pompous and for what, you know all the cultures of the world have something to offer, and even when germans “appreciate” this, they appropriate, fetishize... they don’t know how to behave with any decency... They have no desire to learn and they even get more angry when you try to open a discussion... and this is why we hate them. Because they make our lives hell, and enjoy it. And for what? What is the point of it ? You know I was at the mieterverein office awhile ago, the woman said I didn’t have an appointment. And I turned the monitor towards me, and boom there it was. So visible on the screen. And she didn’t even apologize. Just stared blankly. So what, what was the point of that. To make me leave and pay more rent, she could get a little kick out of making my life hard? Do they all conspire to try to make our lives hard? freaking Nazis.
One time I was in Dublin on the bus going into the city. These German men were sitting next to me, talking to an Irish guy on the phone, being Super friendly, I guess a colleague, saying they had arrived. Then as soon as they hung up, they talked between themselves, in a sarcastic, awful tone, probably making fun of the Irish way of being. It’s not that they don’t understand how to be friendly. It’s that they think they are the best, they can dictate the rules and friendly people are somehow oblivious and stupid. You know what? People have pain. They don’t have to go about life being an asshole. If someone is kind or friendly it doesn’t mean they are stupid. They are just trying to live life well. Something these jerk Germans understand. It’s best that we all leave Germany as they want us to, leave them to their own devices, so they can keep inbreeding. And close their borders forever and bomb them again. They terrify me. It’s a good thing they are poor, and just want to take drugs and have sex, so that they don’t have the desire to take over the world again.
Of course it’s a different culture. I’ve moved to many countries and I always tried to adjust to their cultures. But this one is sick. No wonder Germans with immigrant parents identify themselves as foreigners, not Germans. That’s the only country where this happens
GERMans always enjoy trying to provoke. Went on a sort of date with a German in a park. First part of our conversation I told him I was from England and this entailed in him saying he lived there and putting down the 'drinking culture' and questioning 'this way of living'. Whilst I may or may not agree with his critique, why start already bashing the home country of your date? It is just plain bad manners. Of course they would see it as being direct and honest and all that bull.
Not saying my country isn't up for being criticised. Can't you at least wait til the third date beforehand? ;-) Do they assume I will be attracted to them by their negative comments about where I am from...?!
They do not understand the art of diplomacy. Their directness makes their critique vulgar and crude.
All people want to show off or criticise a little, but these beasts are so transparent, there is no tact, or intelligence . Just punched into your face, boom, take that, and if you are offended it is your problem.
Communication is a two way interaction, and a reciprocal negotiation of both sides reading the other. Yet we can see when walking on the street that non-Germans or people who haven't grown up here send communication signals to each other to avoid bumping into one another. Moreover, we send these signals to thank someone for moving aside, or to say sorry when we accidentally knock someone or enter their personal space. Not the Germans. It is just me, myself and I... all the time... yet frustrated when others do not comply with their ego ego ego and wondering why people dare to be in their way. It is like every single person is an 'only child' in this city, not able to compute that they aren't the only sh1t in the world.
Recall the number of times those germans stamp their foot when you are in their way in a shopping isle, when trying to get a yoghut out of the fridge... because you just happened to be there when they wanted something too. Look, biatch, you are living in a city... we share the space...
They are always so grumpy all the time because they seem surprised that other people seem to occupy the same sphere. I am not surpised they are grumpy because everyone acts like an A-hole, and thus the circle of frustration continues. This goes for all outdoor realms... roads...cars...public transport... restaurants... spaetis, public parks and municipal buildings... and airports (!!!)
Wow. You nailed it. You described germans so accurately. Ego ego ego above anything else (what do the others want? Doesn’t matter) and they will criticize your country or city the first time they meet you and find out where you’re from. No manners at all, these people
I've also noticed the same thing. When Germans realize you're a foreigner they'll almost always either 1. ignore you, or 2. toss out the first stereotype they can think of. I am American and I have had conversations with Germans who I had just met say things like "Oh you're from America? I would never let my kids move there because they'd probably get shot" or "I can't really stand Americans, but the ones who have a passport are usually ok". Why even start like that? When I meet Germans I never lead with "Wow, what's with all the weird drunks urinating in public here?" or "Why is your country so scared of free speech that they actually jail people for it?". In fact, even when Germans invariably ask me if I like it here since I've been here a while and it's kind of uncommon for an American to move here, even then I keep things civil. It's not because I'm afraid of confrontation or arguments or because I'm unsure of my stance, it's because I understand one thing that Germans will, on aggregate, never EVER understand: saving face. I'm not going to unnecessarily make someone else feel bad for zero net gain. Germans don't understand that. They don't understand that you can be annoyed because someone is walking to slowly in the middle of an aisle but still politely ask to get by. It just doesn't factor into their minds. They're huge proponents of early institutional education of children for socialization but at the same time all seem to have garnered zero social skills in 20 years of schooling.
Also another thing I've noticed is that the only way you can actually enjoy Berlin is if you're completely unaware of everything around you. If you don't notice that you're being scorned by random Germans for doing pretty much anything in public, if you don't notice the grumpy stomps and sighs and grunts when you're paying at a grocery, if you don't notice that there's a small homeless camp set up 5m away from where you're playing volleyball for 20€/hour, if you don't notice the weird alcoholics peeing against the windowpanes of Kaufhof on Alexanderplatz when you're trying to enjoy the Christmas market... if you can ignore all of that then you can enjoy Berlin.
We as Berliners and Germans just don't want you here, it's that simple. SO why are you here and complaining about it ? Get yourselves out of here and get on with your lives. You will never be happy here and we will always scowl at you when we see you. So go !
Yeah that’s funny considering international companies lure foreigners to Germany to work since your pooping population is lazy and unqualified, so that more qualified foreigners can work for peanuts, get trapped and have no money to leave. And don’t forget how your government markets the place to foreigners for the tourism industry. Get over yourselves, you try to call yourselves an international city when it’s a village and backwater. You are the most xenophobic people on the planet and I hope your city, with all the tourist dollars it relies on, really feels the effects from corona. You say you want us to leave but you probably don’t even have a job that relies on us. I hope the international community wakes up to you all still being Nazis.
You should have done 'due diligence' before you moved to Berlin or anywhere else for that matter. If you are stuck here and hating it -it is because you hate yourself for not doing this investigation in the first place.You are naive and foolish to think you are welcome everywhere you go. You are not. You must adapt and conform to where you live. Berlin is not for you LEAVE...We don't want you here and you don't want to be here -so GO!
LOL whom is Berlin for exactly? Last I checked, the city did nothing over the last 100 years except bounce back and forth between two radically opposing ideologies that both resulted in massive surveillance systems and extra-judicial extermination of entire swaths of society. If it weren't for foreigners I suspect Germany would have entirely cannibalized itself by now, many times over. And if it weren't for financial injections from the West AND the East then Berlin would have sunk back into the swamp from which it materialized long ago. It's actually amazing to me that any German can have any self-respect or sense of national identity at all given it's history that is both oppressively fierce and miserably impotent.
OP: Why is the 'German/Berliner/Nazi' commenting on my feed? What are you doing on berlinhater?? If London had a similar site with 3400+ bashings (which it doesn't...hmm...) would there be a sad brit lurking in there to defend it? Same goes for Paris...NY...and so on. These cities aren't perfect, far from it, but no one is full of this fantasy nonsense, "Berlin, du bist so Wunderbar"/ "Berlin, ich liebe dich'"etc. We know London has a pooping side. We have more empathy that it is tough to live somewhere as a foreigner, especially when the locals think you don't deserve to be in their 'utopia' ...cough.
Have you not considered people meet a German or Berliner abroad and have relationships and children and end up moving to Berlin? Have you not considered that your country funds arms and war equipment in the middle east and these refugees are coming here to escape your policies and actions? Have you not considered your countries position in colonisation/globalisation? This is me, as an englishman saying this... all Europeans have this blood on our hands...our histories... what possible right do you have to tell anyone to 'leave'???!!!
What the F are you doing revelling in 'scowling' at people?!
People in London say good and bad things about their city. Here in Berlin, utter a bad thing and it is almost breaking a taboo. Where does this defensiveness come from?
Many fellow Londoners complained to me (English and from abroad), and it didn't cross my mind to tell them leave... i.e. go home. Until you have lived as a real adult, and made commitments you will never understand how much courage, effort, money, time, and other complicated factors go into upping sticks and moving to another land...then having to do it even back to your own isn't just something where you snap your fingers and... we are locked down in contracts that auto roll over per 24 months for one thing!!!! Seems your companies are keen to take our (foreigners) money and employ us in the menial work you don't want or to fill the gaps in the skilled market, maybe you should take your argument up with them???
I just think you don't think.
You probably will never understand, perhaps you were born here and you will likely stay in Berlin your whole life and keep scowling at foreigners. I know you want the earth to stand still in the year 1999 and not progress so you can keep your never never land fantasy, and watch VHS videos and smoke inside buildings, and continue doing whatever you did in your teens... which is your choice... but the earth doesn't stop for anyone or country and you will be left behind. Your city is on borrowed time dipping into the pockets of the rest of Germany, whilst Germany dips into the pockets of the poorer EU countries thriving off their debt.
Let’s add to all this that Germans stop talking to you altogether for no apparent reason. A German was very friendly to me and we had a lot of conversations, until one day he removed any bits of intimacy and stopped talking to me. I have no idea why. I never said anything offensive. They just do that all the time. Some German “friends” of my parents did the same to them and they have no idea why. Germans are sick people, period.
You say “I don’t like Berlin” and they’re like “we don’t want you here! Leave!” As if they all have some kind of earpiece telling them what to say... I have a few German friends, but even they are extremely traumatized by the place. And they are also new to Berlin under 2 years from Munich and Hamburg. Everyone else just freaked out and gaslit me. And these berliners like to say people from other parts of Germany are worse....
But also how broken up is it that they really don’t have an identity at all except “Berliner”. And they all have the same opinions and “leave” mentality. Like why not make your own persona and not try to police random people around you and chill the fornicate out, man.
I thought about going to Spain after this but now I’m in North America I may try Los Angeles after corona. I need Chill people, even airheads would be welcome
I only know one Berliner girl who dared say Berlin was dirty. She has traveled a lot and done volunteering in other countries, that’s why. Instead of giving them welfare money, the state should fund these people to travel and open their extremely closed minds. Also, force them to work.
Had a German girlfriend once who told me a weird story. Her aunt was either pregnant or had just gave birth and one of my gf's cousins was a teenager at the time. Somehow he apparently steered a conversation to breast milk and said he'd like to try it and she let him drink it straight from her tit. Met them both later at some family gathering and specifically remember her saying to her own son that the cousin who sucked on her tits- had a much "nicer physique" and that her son should try to be more like him. EX (haha) gf maintained the entire time that there was nothing at all sexual or weird about the breastfeeding. I swear to God NOTHING about this country's culture surprises me anymore.
Q: How many Germans does it take to screw In a lightbulb
A: one, because they know exactly what they are doing, adding more Germans to the mix would just confirm their hypothesis
Is there a legal way to get a deposit back from the landlord if I’ve left the country ?
How are you supposed to get a normal job in the country? Okay, pretty much every job requires a bachelor (better a master of course). But even then you look at job postings and even for ENTRY LEVEL/JUNIOR positions they always say 2-3 years experience. And for every internship they always say ONLY STUDENTS because they'd have to pay at least minimum wage unless it's a mandatory student internship. How the hell did anyone here ever get their first job?
They all get free education. It’s beneficial for discounts until they’re 40 to avoid any real working. Although I do have a degree, I really find degrees as useful as toilet paper seeing so many with one of those, but not able to pin A to B. Anyway, this is my rant to a different topic.
I guess at least having those on my resume, I got me to the interview stage a few times. Who knows.
To answer your question: if you are good in your field, just be confident. Don’t get put down while trying. Once you get to the interview table, sell yourself fairly and openly. Be modest as the common sense dictates, but not too modest. Here it seem a weakness rather than a quality.
On your CV elevate your working experience rather than your education and focus on your strength points.
Know what you want, what you’d like to do, what you’re good at and go for it.
Do not seem to willing to do everything. German employers find that desperate.
Use bigger words to describe poop tasks you had. I literally saw people selling themselves and their lack of experience by putting a bow on the poop. You can make everything sounds fancier than it is with a little effort.
And now, on the “black market” type of suggestions. No one asks for proof of your degree here. I might be wrong, but in three years never happened to anyone I know.
Just add a fancy BA and MA from a University in a foreign country, and you’re set. I add my master degree in my CV all the time, even though I dropped out of it, and never graduated it. I would admit not having the degree, but no one asked so far.
I also know someone who said that went to Uni, but in fact.. didn’t. Guess what happened?
Yup, no one checked. ;)
Good luck and fingers crossed!
Also, make up some experience in some foreign country, ask a friend to be available for a reference etc. if needed. You know, the usual... Lie a bit. :) But make sure it’s plausible.
They want 2 years of experience? Well, let me tell you about that one startup in Kuala Lumpur I was doing my management cycle at & the internship for that super secret project for a company I cannot disclose much as I signed a strict confidentiality clause.
Get creative.
Also, if you have a name that is hard on pronunciation, adjust it.
If it’s Tzymotzhy go for Tim etc.
Last name is Garcia Lopez De la Venga, go for just one, or.. Sklinkatinkachenko, go for the beginning part: Sklin.
From Tzymotzhy Sklinkatinkachenko = Tim Sklin or ... Tim Venga
( I apologise in advance for offending anyone with my fictive names here)
When you get the contract it will be as in your ID anyway.
I can tell you how it is. The HR departments in Germany are often full of sh*t. They want to hire a guy with a PhD, 10 years of experience, ideally you're 25 and are available 24/7 while working for 2000€ month max. Their expectations are completely out of touch. Unless you have any sort of connections, you can spend years of unsuccesful job hunt, like I did. Had to do further education as a web dev, because my original university degree was worth f*ck all.
This proves exactly their racism sometimes. They act so multi kulti for the sake of politically correctness, but they will always go for a German that has the intellect of a cabbage instead of a fairly bright or eager to learn foreigner.
One of the best qualities you must focus to develop is adaptability and willingness to learn.
Germans lack that by nature, and are socially autistic (and evil spirited, I might add).
No matter how much experience you have a new job is a learning curve. Always.
You can even learn from scratch on the job if you’re not a moron. That is why you see so many dysfunctional companies with dysfunctional people & a toxic competitive vibe.
If a German is feeling threatened by you because you are smarter, better, faster, you will prove nothing to anyone, except how stupid you must be to think they will see you less than subhuman if you’re not German.
Bonus point if you are from a poorer, conflict country or such. They’ll just assume you have not seen civilized world until you reached Germany.
Even the most multi kulti, vegan, leftie, refugee welcome type of Germans have this thing.
Übermenschen Syndrome still lingers on this society.
"You can even learn from scratch on the job if you’re not a moron."
Says a lot about a culture that thinks its own citizens are so mentally deficient that they need 13 YEARS of mandatory school followed by AT LEAST 3 MORE YEARS of higher education PLUS a PRACTICE JOB (i.e. internship/trainee (because for some reason trainees in Germany are just interns) to do any job at all. Germany just might be full of the stupidest people on earth.
To the person who said make up degrees. Obviously you are from a third world country. At some point, someone may ask for the degree and probably will. It's pretty easy to figure out that someone is lying about having a masters degree. You can figure this out with a Bachelors as well.
I am the one with the suggestion. Well, I did not “lie” about having it. I did my master. I just never did the final project to get the degree, but I do list it as it’s relevant knowledge I got there for my current job. I do not care, no one cares and I earn 5K+ per month. No one will ask at this point, and I am not even feeling guilty. They can call the University and confirm my registration, but who exactly does that?
I used to live in Berlin and escaped. My mistake is that I moved to VIENNA. Now why am I posting here? Because I have noticed that basically ALL GERMAN SPEAKING COUNTRIES ARE THE SAME: full of racists, degenerates, assholes and idiots and generally angry people without decent manners. Luckily I will be leaving Vienna at the end of the month but its exactly like Berlin: fake claims of "beautiful city" when it is in fact a dirty and grotty idiot fill of cunts. I advise anyone seeking to leave berlin: DO NOT MOVE TO ANOTHER GERMAN SPEAKING COUNTRY. Any country that is German speaking - I have learned - is as a rule of thumb just full of stupid assholes. Vienna has pulled the same trick as Berlin - pretending to be a nice city to lure in Tourist money - now that that is gone all these cities are going to get their comeuppance. Deservedly so!
I. Trying to understand this. I just spent a few hours reading about “influencer” In Berlin. Piecing together their stories that didn’t match up. It seems everyone I know is extremely broke. Do people really say “I’m going to Berlin to be an artist” and make up these OUTRIGHT LIES that they are living off of this?!? I could barely afford to eat!!! And nobody paid me for anything. Flashback two years to when I was living in another city and I could make enough money to buy clothes at a 60-80k year income with my other job - but not even THAT, I could NEVER buy that expensive clothing they wear and travel INTERNATIONAL as to Asia North America AND Europe!!!’
How rich are these kids ???! I’m seriously wondering because even on 80k I could never do that.
They don’t even have CV or website !!
And here they are saying how they made it in Berlin when most artist there can not even feed themselves ! And yes it is specific. To Berlin because there is absolutely no money there !!!!!!
Can someone please tell me ONE person they know who makes That kind of money off of art and doesn’t have parental support ?????
I know of only one person through a friend of a friend, a Gucci stylist and for some other brand.... but everyone I know is dirt poor !!!
I post often on this site lately because I want to expose the lie that is this City!!!! It is really not ok to say you moved to Berlin to be an artist with no experience and then bam you get all kinds of fashion and gigs. that’s not how life works!!!! It’s such a scam this city. At least in a city like NYC there is an actual economy you can make tips at a bar or work another job even rent is higher. Berliners make 40 in tips in a 12 hour shift !!!!
All these “artists” are CONSTANTLY lying about where they get money from (their parents) .... quite sick of this poop
This city needs to be exposed for what it is!!!! I am gone now. And now I can actually get my life back together but even when I make a good income.... it will never be like that .
People if you are giving your Children 100,000$ a year to live in Berlin as an “artist” there is something wrong with you, stop trying to live vicariously through your kids , this actually tricks the rest of the world into thinking there are actual WELL PAID opportunities in that city , which there are NOT
Ps and I know what real influenced are. These people are not real influenced. Maybe they do a few things one of them, the rest no. And there would be something that said “paid partnership with ____” and evening those were so far between.
Berlin is a lie
"Had one friend who had gay men pay to suck his penis"
This is seriously more common in Berlin than a sane person would think. Go to pretty much any park within the Berlin ring and look for secluded areas - you'll always find gross old men looking to pay to fuck.
Actually I’m the OP and a sex worker. And Berlin was trash for money. That’s why I left. I won’t work for cheaply. Don’t you realize people pay €30 at brothels?! Disgusting !
There is no way those artists made any money as sex worker in Berlin, sorry. They also look too innocent for that and some were men. They just have rich parents.
Because even in Berlin some months phones do not ring... and germans were ALWAYS lowballing, wanting to met right away, usually late at night and to come to my personal address with ZERO identification/screening ??!! It’s completely bananas . But that is how Berlin and most of Europe operates, can’t wait to make six figures in 2021 in a safe and upscale environment.
I found all germans care about is sex. They don’t care about upscale services. They don’t even understand when you try to talk to them. Man, in USA I would have people take me out for dinner , overnights, weekends. Hahahahaha I would rather shoot my self than do that with a german
I literally had men write me “hast du Zeit” for three years. Til. I realized . It’s not the same person writing me from different numbers. All germans are the same . No respect for sex workers, no concept of class or how to properly introeuce themselves. As if I would just see anyone and risk my safety? I wouldn’t . I’d just wait for a German who followed instructions (1/20 ) or for an American tourist to come through. And those American tourists reminded me what it’s nice about doing actual things together and treating me with proper respect .
I knew many trust fund kids. They all had "projects", studied at places like central st Martins. Tbh, I don't blame them for living the life they're living. No pressure, no bills so you can generally pursue what interests you. I agree that claiming to make it in Berlin is BS. I'd have more respect for them if they just said "I have a fund so I can do whatever the F I want".
op here again. and no, I didn't know berlin sex work was so trash before moving, obviously. some months I did well at 5000. but I usually only made 1500-3000. which is not exactly the point of my job!!! the point of my job is to live fabulously. something which is completely lost on berliners.
plus, I never registered. in germany they make you register and get a card saying you are a hussy and go to all kinds of vocational training. but really they just want your tax money (again, not the point of my job). and I have heard this week, police are posing as clients and raiding peoples apartments, because theyre not supposed to be working under corona. this country is a hellhole.
and yes the problem with the trust fund kids is the point being, they perpetuate the illusion that is berlin with all of their lies about "making it" there as an artist. whereas I know the reality, there is no making it there. and even me as a sex worker could not afford that with my income. its just too crazy.
I'm just remembering now my awkward dates with germans. one just talked about the most random, not arousing or interesting stuff - his car, fro 1.5 hour, the other one, just sat blankly staring at me when I tried to be friendly, the other one, was completely obliterated on cocaine, the other one, thought he could just pay me and treat like an object, the other one, tried to lock me in the apartment after and demand my real name.....
I am surprised women let men in this country act this way. you can tell a lot about a country by the men through my job. I would say germans were by far the cheapest, most boundary pushing, and weirdest. they even want to have sex with the blinds or window open, they really don't care if the neighvours directly across see or hear. they really have no sense of the term "discretion
plus also haha......most of them or one point or another complained about price because they were used to a brothel service..... idiot this is not a brothel.... then they try to tell me how it is,,,,, clearly have never been anywhere else on the planet.....
really I wonder why german women put up with some bullshit, but maybe theyre just as desperate to have sex as they are, I mean they do it for free anyway, withut the men even having to flirt, take them on date, or pay for dinner..... classless and boring
I know im ranting but maybe this is interesting for people to read....in comparison.... north American cleints book weeks in advance for when they travel....german client "Hast du zeit?" Oh, sorry, one hour is too long from now to meet. I want to meet you at the drop of a hat. Of course you're just sitting around all day waiting for sex.
American client- they give me their real name and linkedin so I know its not police and they aren't a rapist. German client "I'm afraid of my personal information being stolen" BUT " let me come to your house now (where your name is on the doorbell) without telling you who I am"
American client - tries to actually get to know me German client - focuses on solely sex and acts weird when I try to make myself human by talking to them - wow what a turn off, I just wanted to bang with them having zero boundaries and then leave and pay hardly anything!
American client - respects price structure before contacting me
German client - tries to negotiate price even when it is clearly listed online
American client - doesn't go to brothels, because views women working there having sex for low money and 10-15 men a day as disgusting, would rather pay more for someone who doesn't work that way
German client - does not see women having sex with 10-15 men a day disgusting, doesn't even consider that, just wants something cheap./
they even have a category on berlin intim called "hobby whore"
oh heres another one
American client - likes nice lingerie and branding, personality
German client - knows fornicate ALL about lingerie and even finds it ridiculous!?!?!!?!!!? (what kind of idiot hates lingerie) and likes the fake tits, trashy porn look, completely characature
Besides this is “Berlin hater” not “women hater”
I’m a ho that hates Berlin so I’m just writing on this forum so people see the reality of this sham of a city. Not even hos can supplement their living as “artists” unless they want to work for cheap. It’s a joke
I kinda of enjoyed the elaborated comparison OP made.
I do agree it says a lot about what we all experience on a human level with Germans. Also, that is how a savvy prostitute should be: Erotic.
I am a girl, not getting laid much. I prefer a connection which I don’t really get... But one time I had sex with a German guy and it was quite good. I was somehow attracted and confident to him to be openly into it, erotic and enjoying it.
Then all fell apart as he got insecure and afraid that I was exaggerating getting pleasure with him. Like boy.. What? RIP
Are your physical attributes even 300€ worth?
If yes, you should have registered and worked at Artemis. Stop complaining, life is not fair. Seems like you started to approach the wall and you’re just bitter that you didn’t find your personal Edward Lewis aka suggar daddy yet!
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Above. You’re an A**hole.
You can offer an erotic experience with all kinds of physical attributes.
You can see drop dead gorgeous women stiff as planks and robust women luscious as sexual AF. As in every job, it requires skills, tact and experience to make it worth the money.
And no, I am not the OP, but I think prostitution comes in many form. From cheap to high class.
We categorize any other good we consume like that, so dafuq is that comment of yours?
OP did say that the purpose of the job is to live fabulously (for her) so ja, frustration is due in that case.
Lol, the guy saying I should work at Artemis. This guy is totally a German. Did you not read anything I wrote ? These freaking retards think brothels is the only form of sexual experience. Morons, this isn’t taking a woman on a date. This is a brothel. Where women work for cheap because they usually have no clue they can charge more, thanks to Berlin clientele. And no I was not on Kaufmich. Com . That literally translates into “buy me” . The ad sites in Berlin are so cheap and trashy. There is nothing erotic about any of this. When I met Americans or went to UK, it was nice to have people with some kind of social skills. Berlin is the dark ages. Backwards, “prostitution”, that the women working in if they were educated properly on how workers can make a living in other countries, would not work under those conditions. But usually they come from a shittier economic situation than Germany and don’t know any better.
and no I would never register with the German system, trash German poster above. Why would I get a card that says “whore”, which would be on my permanent record for travel and other employment, and go to vocational traning for that????? Oh and pay all kinds of tax? fornicate germany! I escaped, fornicate them, and fornicate their future. Those fuckers aren’t even helping Italy in Corona. I hate them. I’m glad I never paid any tax and I’m glad they didn’t ruin my life further !
And why you are also trash is you are telling me how to run my business as if germany isn’t somehow responsible. I’ve worked all over the world, and I have NEVER met such trash clientele and cheap people as I did in Berlin.
Ps I charge over 1000 per hour in USA. Idiot.
And PPS I don’t want a sugar daddy, idiot. I could easily find one. I don’t want some moron controlling my life and lowbAlling me. I like working for an hourly rate. And not getting a billion texts message from some idiot. I like when clients come see me and then LEAVE. Idiot...
Although I will say this, apparently dommes make good money in Berlin. That’s the only people I know of, professionals in dungeons make good money. And trans. Or if you want to go to an upscale agency, but for that you have to register and pay out 40%, so theres no point.
Germany is so backwards to make people register . And apparently now the police are going around, busting people for working during corona and raiding their apartments. Because there is no screening for workers safety in Germany. I am so glad I am not there anymore. I don’t regret moving to that country because it taught me a lot and it was a good challenge, but fornicate Germany.
Spend time with a German and they’ll turn any positive experience to a negative one. Why are they so negative about everything. Pisses me off to no end