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Why do people here keep asking if other german cities are any better. Did you not see enough already, dafuqs wrong with you? entire germany is crap, regardless the city.
I wrote here before about this and I want to sum it up. I make it an extra post, copying the one from a page back. Man you just don't get it. It's about valueing a feel bc it is there. Of course there is so many other feelings, I am talking feelings that were repressed. Often stuff you don't even want to look into bc you already feel. By not feeling you don't value yourself. All you see is that it was crazy but tell me is thunder crazy? Surely if you question it you can't actually feel, if you try to judge it. It's not that you don't want to. It's there so wtf wud it be. It lightens you up it's like love or also is, where the fuk do you think all the love is, gotto be somewhere. Not bout to tell sb to shut up. refers to the post before. There is many things to say, how it expresses It not even need selfconsciouness but even if, all it wud do, is connect you back to life and feeling. You can anyway only do one.
Yes, true it can be not there or realized. Don't think about how it might make one act. I'm saying simple things, because life actually helps us to feel. Idk how many times I punched a table, never hurt my hand, or shouted "for sexual act sake". It's a unnecessarily avoided topic because it initially seems so serious, so the opposite of how it is then. Often I already feel light when shouting. It comes from this confidence to know it's good to feel. If you don't feel, it goes away for the moment. It doesn't wait but I do sing also if things accumulated. It makes you see things clearer actually, things you never could resolve by thinking. You just need to make this experience of catching yourself back. How much nonsense came from the thoughts of not in touch with oneself...It's life you know, there is no other way to live.
Now just minus the selfconsciouness since there is areal page. While often we purely do stuff so we can feel. It clicks back in then. If you go with how you feel, then non of this shud bother. It's for example the stuff that not work out, little things, they are supposed not to if you're not feeling well. Depression also literally tells you what it's about, the name of it.
And finally I wouldn't call it anger necessarily. It's light too, life force. Eventually it is love or light. There is relief from feeling it. Stuff often is dumb or overly serious so there is the big problem with looking into it but you still wanna feel as it did. Because it was there. See?
Lastly, it cannot land on oneself. Notice how this is not feeling..One gotto stay with the feel, mainly comes from valueing yourself that no feel without good reason, no matter if you know it. There is nothing to know because it's already there. Later you'll see also. Analyzing is a problem, but not makes sense. Could even see good intention of it.
When angry it surely doesn't feel light, that was nonsense. And it's not important to know any of this because you already are, normal life. .. I only mentioned it to not falsly think of it the wrong way. Expessing a feel also is an effortless thing, by default. We don't get angry so easily. Don't push :) unless you are doing music, it has benefits there, otherwise it's nonsense, stuff people might hv said, "gotto be really tough there", "gotto show him", stuff like that. It's up to one, value one's feel or believe the weak frames others viewed it. Don't mean to pressure anyone. Just a topic. There's other things connected to it but I really felt there is so much misunderstanding so yeah maybe it is inspiring, if not then not.
while often the feel here is häh? when interacting with people here. I was just buying something. She asked me: the receipt? I said Häh?, I need this for my order. Did I mention to watch this movie from the 80ies, it takes place in a holiday camp. Watch the scene where the children make the supervisor or whatever cry. The blonde girl, the scene with the pens. But you see, it's kind of a different topic. I don't really know why I bother, but aside the assholes here, maybe it's good for someone. But don't expect me to care if you don't care. I really don't. I view this as a topic that I shared and that's it.
I mean that it's hilarious, I didn't mean to say to like learn from it. You know häh? shud be the main word to use here. If you actually want to get in the tune of it, and I guess that's what I meant, there is a video on youtube, tricking scammers, something with the PC, but the scammer is actually really good at saying häh haha. from India. The guy calling is German. It can be so out of tune to say such a thing, it's amazing.
But it doesn't mean that it's all bad for the main point what feelings are. The thing was that I came from below with something above and it undermined everything. Actually just makes me angry seeing it being written like that which is clearly due to the influence of not valueing it by people like you. At the same time, it cannot be below so this view is not actually real.
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Are you fukking stupid. I literally just wrote about to feel a feel when it's there. And how to actually express it. That might sound weird but it's not. There is no extra effortlessness, I didn't write how to. You freaking debile donkeys wanna tell me that you know to express anger? And that it feels better then? You wanna tell me I was out of my mind for writing the only sane thing, Feeling. YOUR FUKKING REPLIES ARE THE LITERAL CONFIRMATION!! THAT YOU HAVE TROUBLE WITH THAT!! You don't know powerful anger and yet there is thunder and then there is rain and then there is sun and yet YOU WANNA TELL ME I WAS OUT OF MY MIND?!! You are the fukkkng idiots who pathologize anger as if it was STUCK!! Which is ridiculous HaHaHa
I mean I admit, it's a bit weird because it's so focussed on like one moment. I can't actually tell you exactly what is up with that but there are these moments where you just feel to slam that door or such things. And then your mind goes like hmm but this but that, but smth good happens when you just feel. It being against sb is not feeling.
but also could be, I mean who am I to pick that all apart. I don't mean this arrogantly, that wouldn't make any sense. I cannot put this picture right or clear with your kind of attitude. It's just silly. All I was doing is looking at something and normally others would have something to add to it or supportively contribute. Your behaviour is just Idk what to say. How do you expect to get to anything with such an attitude. And I'm sorry if I offended anyone, of course I didn't mean it literally.
I actually got something the wrong way with this powerful anger. Something was definitely off, also if I read between the lines of your responses. No need to look into it. As always your feedback sucked hard (:)) but okay. I am very sure I saw something overly serious and also from a kinda lost pov. I am from planet earth dude just, get over it. Of course you can read everything, why the fukk would you not.
The focus on the feels is what was off to be more precise. And it's just not actually it, at the same time it also is. If you take your feel, be it an inuition or a feeling, if you take that as 'ok that must have a reason, if you take it serious you''ll get a better clue. But it's not easy always. Let's say you are sick of something, feel it because it stands for what you love. Lets say you feel like poop and somebody speaks outside in this shouty way, you might feel I hate people like you who shout like that. Because he's not feeling. It's asocial. Or you might feel like Why don't you get yourself a fukking megaphone? it's like love within, it's how it feels. Yet still, more anger might come up so one might punch the table or a folder, paper. I just wrote it a bit off like it was sth technical, which with singing it kinda would be.
all i can say is gott sei dank für die ausländer
Jesus Christ it is unbelievable that this kind of poop is actually real.
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Potsdam....thoughts...Is it better. Can i escape by S?
German women totally destroyed my sex drive which I thought is impossible. It's sad.
Lack of sexual curiosity happens when you're exposed to sex at a very early age and develop a latent feeling of disgust about the whole topic. Disgusting nudist families and weird rearing techniques, like fu(king in front of your own children created a nation of sexual avoidants.
I've lived in Berlin for almost six years! I had a relationship there in this town. I'm incredibly glad to be out of this hole! Unfortunately, everything has manifested itself on my health guys. I have psoriasis everywhere on my skin and panic attacks. The doctor told me that these are the consequences of long-term stress. And in Berlin, I experienced really terrible things like: bullying at work, racism.. "I feel terrible even though I haven't been in Berlin for six months!" - Spain is waiting for me now, and I hope the sun will help me get back on my feet. If you think your situation in Berlin will improve, I want to warn you. No one's going to give you back health. I'm just asking myself: how could I have endured so long in all this and why? Am I an idiot? I think so. I think I'm an idiot. Good luck to everyone.
Visit KVBerlin.de, i reccomend half of these paople here, you can find pszchologist paid by Krakenverzigung
Wouldn't visit a German psychologist even if someone paid me to. I don't need SSRIs, I don't need some old kiddie diddler asking about my childhood and I sure as hell don't want to talk to someone who willingly settled down in this trash pit to tell me about how to live my life.
After coming back after few years in Berlin i warn ppl from IT and all other to never think about it as a resonable career life choice, if you are young after 20's and want to quickly make experience or just party over the whole nights in clubs and dont remember what have you done last week then maybe ok for some time, if you really love germany go to munich, hamburg any other bigger city, but dont make mistake coming to this craphole
I have lived here for 10 years and only a few years ago I fully understood how much of an actual idiot this city is. Both locals and visitors are desperately trying to pretend it’s still great, anything they say sounds entirely brainwashed and at times it feels like living in a cult. It’s become hard to meet any people who aren’t outright obsessed with the filthy drug-club culture and fake positivity/nihilism. I stopped feeling welcome in this city because of the constant passive aggression, judging stares and people invading my privacy, I just feel like you cannot feel free in Berlin unless you entirely comply with the default “lifestyle” most people have here. That said, it’s all in addition to the real estate crisis, expensive public transportation, university professors/staff who don’t give a shit, very one-dimensional selection of music events and other leisure activities... The only things the city if worth visiting for is literally history, some museums and the nature. I would not willingly come back to live here long-term, every day you feel like you’re being slowly poisoned.
Umm nature? It’s a sand-filled bog. This whole strip of land between east Germany and Poland had the dullest, most uninspiring nature I have ever laid eyes on. The grass is faded, like the people’s souls. The trees look dreary. There is hardly any evergreen so the winters are bleakly bare. And as for the lakes... algae and waves of Nazi scenes conjure up in my mind. And of course dog poo. The novelty of these lakes soon fades.. and they sort of look like ditches. Then one hears the shrill screams from the Fräuleins or Staccato barks from the men-beasts, as they demonstratively colonise the banks with their nude carcasses.
If you work freelance, make all of your clients pay you at least 50% upfront. Even if you teach English. Berliners are notorious for screwing over expats. Even better, do not accept freelance positions. Just go home.
I found this site two weeks ago. I observed the same stuff you guys are talking about... Racism, hate, jealousy, staring, aggression, lying, stealing, violence, drug abuse, alcoholism, xenophobia, rudeness, no trustworthy people, hopelessness, feminism, lefty crime, stalking... Four weeks and I'm out! I'm going to try to stay at home until I leave. I don't want anybody to fornicate this plan up.. You never know. Wish you guys the best of luck and thanks for motivating me to get out of this hellhole.
How would you define androphobia? Is it the fear of tall women? Or is it the fear of men? Or the fear that a woman might be right? If a woman has a good argument, is she a man then? Or is it the so called lack of attractiveness ? Or is attractiveness the mere ability of a woman to shut her mouth?
So much for group therapy
hey guys. I am observing this site since couple days. I dont like berlin, to be honest i hate it and want to leave as soon as possible. But the people and some rasict and ugly words and posts here make me belive that i am leaving from exactly those people. A lot of you guys here act like germans and i dont want to be a part you.
I dont want to end up like a loser here.
Wish you gyus luck.
I am quite sure those guys are germans or some Trump suckers. But belive me they are for a good reason in berlin. If they are expats no wonder they don't find a way to live comfortably in this city. Even if its pure shit. Those guys are heavy losers. poop on them. They belong to this city like Corona
Is Germany lying about coronavirus deaths? Compare the deaths in Germany to the deaths elsewhere. Every other country with similar rates of infection has had deaths. Why has Germany magically been able to snub off the virus's death rate of 3.4% (according to the WHO). And why are there so few recoveries in Germany? Something doesn't add up.
