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What's your experience in dating here? I was doing fairly well with girls before moving to this city, but now I feel like as long as you don't fit to the Berlin-hipster-stereotype who dresses like a total female genitals and works for some soon-to-fail start-up or some wannabe artist or musician, the dating-scene is just a huge mess here. In four month I was only dating two girls, both of them very average-looking, annoyingly feminist (I'm certainly not anti-feminist, but it just pisses me off when 80% of your conversation is about how unfair the world is towards women as if I don't have any problems as a male). Besides that...most dates I had here where just terribly boring, cold/arrogant attitude of German women is just very weird. I'm starting to question myself and loosing my self-confidence. Anyone here who has made similar experiences? (I'm German btw but lived mostly abroad in recent years until I moved to this idiot to start a new job)
Seems like most German men these days are happy dating non-German women. But be weary of the Western European leftist mentality (that has also infiltrated the US and Canada, unfortunately). Don't feel discouraged. As a woman who was flirted with often back home, the men here (regardless of ethnicity) seem to operate on a primal level and be losers.
German women are disgusting. They are extremely stupid, even the so called educated ones. It’s like they have no brain of their own to think with. Confident in their looks, but most of them lack all sense of feminity, grace and sexiness. Ugly, big female dogs mostly. No taste in the way they dress, no care for their looks whatsoever, just repulsive. They put it on the feminist beliefs, but truth is they’re unattractive and unappealing to begin with. Also, big sluts but not even worth it. There’s no passion in their bones to blow your mind in bed or something. Pathetic. No wonder this city is super gay.
Which one of you created the MGTOW Berlin facebook group?
Does anyone know about visa ?
I got married with a German passport holder man last Summer in Berlin , but I escaped that could not hold to live in Berlin as you all described its like a hell in many ways, Before my mental got sick I decided to leave.
I m going to Spain this April , then we decided to get divorce but it will be admitted in one year after the court.
The question is I got 3 years visa only allowed to work in Germany aka hell, but legally I could stay in Spain ,
whats gonna be my visa after get divorced ? 3 years visa will be expired the time the divorce will be accepted?
It would be great if anybody knows about it. thanks.
Hello, good afternoon, lovely Berlin Haters!
Does anyone know if German debt (i.e. lawsuit from private universities, unpaid expenses, whatever the case may be) follow you to other EU countries? For example, does a poor SCHUFA prohibit you from having a healthy credit score in other EU nations? My US credit score is in the excellent range, and would like to know this because I'm truly unhappy in this hellhole and want to leave as soon as possible before my mental health deteriorates further. fornicate this hellhole.
I was thinking the other day, this place is pathetic. These people really aren't ready for immigration, I really do feel like this was forced upon them. The women here, what's wrong with them? And this is a legit question, really what is wrong with the women here? I've never seen women become instantly jealous and hateful when they see another woman who looks better than them. The women behave like they have never been around another man before, WTF! Even flirting is a big deal that they take to heart. Just because I'm flirting with you doesn't mean I want you. They don't smile, they two-faced, they have nasty attitudes, flaky as fuck, and I don't care if you have boobs and butt if you have no personality than be gone, nasty witch. I don't think they know how to be a true friend to a male without having him as a "friend with benefits." The German men here are just stupid as fornicate and have no charm but then again how can you when the women are the same. You ever wonder why so many relationships with Germans fail with foreigners? Because they try to project (insecurities) that stupid poop onto men/women who ain't from here and that's where the conflict comes in. I honestly do believe that Germans should be with Germans and friends included. People should stop coming to this place and let's see how this country does then. And I mean international companies and trade as well. You can't benefit from exported companies but you don't really want foreigners-you can't have it both ways. All they do is stare at people that's all they do! You ever been around a group of Germans? One hundred people all at once in sync heads turning looking around like the police is after them, it's the funniest and weirdest thing to see. I can always tell the foreigners in the crowd because they are the ones not looking around at everybody. And another thing, I wish they would stop saying they are cool. You ain't cool these people are some goddam nerds. I'll say this, tell me if anyone understands this and this will describe our situation in Berlin/Germany. If a cool person walks into a room full weirdos and nerds then it doesn't matter how cool he is compared to them he then becomes the nerd. You figure that one out and you will understand your situation here is this poop hole place.
All Germans in public are like the middle eastern guy in this video
www.youtube.com/watch
Why do young German men always seem to be so afraid? They are the most privileged group in this country. They are preferred for jobs and housing. There is no mandatory military service here and prostitution is legal. It seems to be the women's job to flirt and hit on the other sex as German men don't seem capable of doing it. The only thing they've got to do is not getting beat up by MENA men.
They either have a) this fearful but yet aggressive look in their eyes or b) seem to think they are young Werther and think they suffer the most from the world's problems.
Honestly, I think German "flirting" culture has historically been painfully obtuse and cringeworthy. The older generation (people 50+) grew up with knuckle-dragging courtship rituals that would land you in prison in a civilized country. Flirting requires at least a little wit, charm and intelligent which is severely lacking in this country. Look at any German comedy sketches, such as this one: www.youtube.com/watch
I think over the past decade there has been some pushback, some deserved and some exaggerated, spearheaded by the feminists. The #aufschrei fiasco showed a lot of people that there's still a lot of belly scratchers in this country that think forcefully fondling women and flashing your privates isn't flirting, it's sexual abuse. And I think a lot of guys realized that they can't pick women up that way. It seems to me that almost all males here, and especially those from east germany, suffer from avoidant personality disorder. They cannot take any criticism whatsoever. Flirting makes you vulnerable, and when society finally removed just throwing yourself at someone these losers haven't found a way to cope. Also seems like almost all families here are split up. Growing up without a role model or, worse still, with a revolving cast of potential step fathers, really messes with young men's heads. Also consider the likelihood of early childhood exposure to lead via the country's painfully antiquated water delivery system. Then look at statistics about toxoplasmosis symptoms and occurrence in this part of the world where raw meat on bread is considered haute cuisine. Finally, and I think this is a big one, the wages in this country and especially in Berlin are a gigantic joke. Men know they can never take the natural dominant role with the wages they earn and going dutch is extremely common here. Every man who doesn't earn good money, at least deep down inside, feels like a failure and that translates into clumsiness with the ladies.
And generally, I have never seen a society that treats men, especially young men, as so extremely worthless as German society. Men here know they aren't desirable, it's why they don't make the effort to dress nicely, wear appropriate clothing or even simply not pee in public in broad daylight. The guys know there is some formula to get a girl, but they know that to solve it they need skills they will never have. Carry out an informal survey of all the German couples you know and you'll soon realize that 100% of them got together while they were inebriated. It's the only time these automatons can let down their shields long enough to form even a weak bond.
One question - what brought you to the conclusion that society treats men, especially young men, as so extremely worthless? That's a legit question.
I think they are over privileged and therefore lack drive and passion. In theory, they don't have to be desirable because they successfully legalized prostitution.
I would say women have many more reasons to feel inferior here - that's why there is a backlash in the form of dressing down, no makeup, always compete with other women, and so on.
Make no mistake: I hate the average nose-picking autist German male in this city. They deserve all the blame for turning out to be pathetic losers incapable of real human emotions. But it's incredible how terrible almost all German mothers I have ever met are.
They are concerned solely with signalling that they're great mothers (openly breastfeeding in public, changing children's diapers IN(!) restaurants, whining whenever possible about how terrible it is that the state doesn't immediately assume full control of the child's life after birth, celebrating themselves for bravely returning to a part-time job that was reserved for them for 2 years while they stuck their kids in daycare and stuffed their mouths with pork all day). Every adult is responsible for him or herself, but German motherhood certainly isn't compatible with a loving parental relationship as seen in ANY other civilized country.
Here's the messiah of scumbag Lefties, their (CBO) Chief Brainwashing Officer. Of course this is just the tip of the iceberg www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2913625/Billionaire-George-Soros-spent-33MILLION-bankrolling-Ferguson-demonstrators-create-echo-chamber-drive-national-protests.html
Why does everyone on this site hate George Soros?
Weirdo loser :o) are you holding a mirror :o))) My guess is by your vacant reply, you are the weirdo loser, who is probably getting his indoctrination from decrepit George Soros. I have a life that you scummy little squat rats would only dream of, in short, I'm very happy and productive, not miserable and destructive. Go back to your worm cellar and spend the rest of the day masturbating over Soros photos. Pee-ew!!!!!!
How fkked up is this www.bz-berlin.de/berlin/neukoelln/erneut-schaf-im-streichelzoo-in-der-hasenheide-geschlachtet
Hey you filthy NAZIS .... aka GERMANS ... STOP POSTING ON HERE ASKING PEOPLE NOT TO TELL THE TRUTH ABOUT GERMANY!!! YOUR WHOLE COUNTRY IS A poop HOLE FULL OF IDIOTS, PASSIVE AGGRESIVE CUNTS AND ASSHOLES::::NOT JUST BERLIN - MY TIP to all those expats suffering: just leave .... germany has always been poop and will always be shit..... these are people who gassed 6 million jews and let in 1.1 million muslim men - plus they are stupid. racist and generally incompetent goons.....
Not only are the police in Berlin sleeping watchdogs, the courts are too (unless you insult someone online).
www.tagesspiegel.de/berlin/angriff-auf-polizistin-in-berlin-karow-kein-gefaehrlicher-eingriff-in-den-strassenverkehr/20976172.html
Here's a perfect example of how Lefties work their scummy magic, these filthy cvnts cannot be trusted, they'd sell their grandmother's false teeth for their ideology they have been brainwashed into and Berlin is full of them, just have a look at what they did to this guy, and how they use Soros's money to stifle debate. They really are the shiit of the earth. www.breitbart.com/big-government/2018/02/17/delingpole-climate-skeptic-tim-ball-wins-landmark-legal-victory-against-green-activists/
Lads, I understand what all of you mean but stop complaining about the country itself. It’s literally only Berlin which is full of garbage stupid assholes who for some odd reason believe they’re the top of the evolution . Once you go to stuttgart , Munich , cologne etc you’re met by smart and funny people 24/7. Berliners are miserable , dirty and terribly uneducated people and are also well known for being dumb all around Germany . Berlin is a massive shithole, for the fact that it’s the capital. I regret moving from Stuttgart to Berlin. Politeness also doesn’t exist in Berlin, it’s as if you live in a cave.
Been to Frankfurt. Definitely worse than Berlin - arrogant bankers who pretend not to see you and walk into you deliberately, aggressive youth, junkies everywhere, the train station is a poop hole in itself, people seem to be aggressive from all the forced multicultural drama.
Speaking of zombies: www.berlin.de/polizei/polizeimeldungen/pressemitteilung.676660.php
the whole of Germany is SHIT.... whoever posted this comment is just another german who cannot handle being justifably slammed.. YOUR COUNTRY AND ITS PEOPLE SUCK -.. and this is NOT just Berlin - i made the mistake of returning to Germany and decided to avoid Berlin and found that they are just disgusting sexual act wherever you go in Germany so I did the next best thing: I LEFT GERMANY AND MY GOD I HAVE NEVER FELT BETTER.
East Germany is broken , everyone knows that . Frankfurt too, but trust me : Stuttgart is a whole lot better than Berlin. While being boring and educated , they still manage to be better than your average below minimum wage earning dumb hipster feminist hybrid Berliner. I’d rather live in a rich spot of Germany where manners exist and the women still look like women, than in Berlin with its ugly look and ugly people.
Germans hate it if you've got humour! For them it's a sign of weakness and they try to treat you like you are a freak. Humour to them means that you make fun of other people and make spiteful remarks behind their backs!
exactly, my ex was born in Germany , He explained exactly same thing, if he says humor , will be treated as a stupid person ,Germans treat him as stupid guy.
One day at work , he smiled and said Guten morgen then a German colleague at work, she said why do you smile at me! please don't do it.
No words this crappy society , really depressing. I could not hold to live there, so Berlin made us split up.
And I have been traumatized all Berlin experiences.
Anyone here who has moved back home (or at least away from this city) and regretted it? I often see discussions online about people who have moved to another city and regretted it. I have been struggling with the decision for a while. I really don't like Berlin but I'm worried I might move away only to regret it within a few months.