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Please give me advice. I have been in berlin 4 years because of my partner s job but as you all know I ve suffering so much especially about people here .
He has to stay 3 more years though I know that I have reached the limit .
I really love him but should I split with him up if I stay here more I will be depressed.
It’s like a big jail here .
I'm in a bar,just a regular bar,,three girls sitting next to me ,are bored,dying to talk with someone,three guys start talking with them,the moment the conversation begins,then the 'war ' begins??For some reason ,both lonely groups start really insulting each other,hating on each other??Making each other feel terrible??Both groups are,lonely,bored and so in need of human contact ,but, both groups decide to use the opportunity to get power???Completely pointless
GERMANY; GERMANS AND BERLIN = dehumanizing - that is all they are "efficient" at and showed this in WW2 .. who is spreading these rumors that is a good place to be??? THIS COUNTRY SUCKS: GET OUT WHILE YOU STILL HAVE A SOUL LEFT...or better: dont come in the first place....an utter hellhole and germans are the worst.
GERMANY: HELLHOLE EXTRAORDINAIRE ::: OUTTA HERE IN 36 hours and its going way too slowly..... poop country, poop ppl, I will never return.
German MILLIONAIRES ARE LEAVING GERMANY IN DROVES:::: smart people ..they can see that its just a ticking timebomb and shithole...leave while you can!
Lefty scum are what makes Berlin a shiiithole.
Here's a real woman, who exposes Feminist propaganda.
Contrary to incessant Feminist propaganda:
www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-5355597/Australia-safest-country-world-women.html
While Trudeau is feminizing his country, these guys from SpaceX are conquering solar system: pbs.twimg.com/media/DVYYf0uXcAUjFOv.jpg I don't see any women, rocket science is probably too complicated for social justice warriors and feminists.
Anyone see Justin Trudeau " mankind " clip???...Whenever you need a laugh/cry Justin is the man !!!
This? www.youtube.com/watch
He isn't "mangina" anymore, now he is "peoplegina".
4 more days till I escape Germany and Berlin.... never coming back... this entire country is a disgusting scam and mess.....the housing sucks, people suck, they are racist and its just a manure hole......
I agree fully. For me, it is more of the attitude of the people in this city. Fake, deceitful, and wicked. I lived in London before (American) moving here with my wife. I should have stayed in England instead of moving here. Everybody in London warned me not to come here and to just give London a chance. My wife ( she hates Berlin) who is German tried to talk me out of moving here. I should have listened to her and my friends in London before coming here. Been a couple times where I had to stop myself from beating the poop out of people here. They love to push people's buttons here I notice. Anyway, hopefully, next year I can move my family to Amsterdam. I hate this place and the people here with all my heart. People here can't be trusted either.I just gave up, I don't want to be friends with them. They really aren't good people. I don't know, I really do think people in this place are freaking evil. I got to get my daughter out of here I don't want her growing up in this place.
I feel sorry for your daughter. You don't listen to your friends or wife! who clearly knows what she's talking about being German and all and besides that you want to beat up people because you lack impulse control (which explains why you went with your dumb impulse to move to this wretched city in the first place) so I'm also not surprised you're not making friends overall (probably will be the same story in Amsterdam even though the Dutch are nice AF). Anyway, good luck for the sake of your daughter and wife you selfish know it all.
Yeah, thanks for feeling sorry for my daughter. But I don’t need your sorry, brother. Also, I have friends here just not German. Plus, if I lacked impulse control then I would have told you to “put a penis in your mouth!” But I didn’t say that to you did I. Trying to be civil here. I will say this, check your attitude there’s no need for smart butt comments. Besides, this is a community so we can support each other not bash each other. Oh yeah, I’m a trained journalist so I have to know it all
He sounds like a Berlin Lefty, always criticising others but never looking in their own backyard. You also didn't call him a stupid, imbecilic moron either, now that's what I call self control. I agree with all your points about Berlin people, they are like grown up children.
Amsterdam is much better (though that is subjective, some may prefer Berlin), just a bit expensive at the moment. The city isn't that large and it's very easy to bike, so even living on the outskirts of the city isn't like living on the outskirts of Berlin, London, or Paris.
Germany and Germans are horrible in General...to the journalist: I understand why you moved from London, it is not a place to bring up kids and very expensive....I made the same "mistake" when i chose to come to Germany, but I learned a hard lesson: this country absolutely sucks, the ppl are horrible on every level and I will never return!
Re. Amsterdam, don't be fooled.
The Dutch are "nice AF" when they travel (because as has been stated about the Germans here, if they tried some of their poop in any other country, they'd get punched in the face) or if you are a tourist in NL spending money, and even then it's not guaranteed.
Amsterdam is very pretty in the centre, but the people are not dissimilar to their German neighbours. Rude, nosy, fake, judgemental, racist, and crass.
If you do go to Amsterdam, work for an international company, stay for a couple of years and enjoy the expat scene, which is not bad
. You will never be accepted in their society, and any Dutch friends you have will treat you like an exotic pet.
You will be derided for not knowing Dutch , but never encouraged to speak it.
You will not really progress in life.
It's in the little things that would be natural, situations in everyday life where you just have to be social. It's like many people are refusing their own nature. So much avoidance and the according fearful awkardness. Always funny when 2 of these noobs bump into each other. As a variation of that you have acting social which is really not it. Just all fails, I mean not the people in itself but their social noobishness, it's like that sound when somebody is lieing in these videos bing bing bing and here it is more of a buzzer wrong sound whenever the day starts. Cars start driving down the road, people leaving for work, walking with the dog, closing a fence instead of leaving it open, even building a fence in many cases, greeting somebody, cutting hedges, tree placement, oh we don't need a promenade by the water ehhh ehhhh ehhhh ehhh neverending symphony of buzzers. I say that with with some warmth in my heart
Hahaha, it's not all that bad really, ever heard of exaggeration and humour, I guess I just expressed it in a more artistic way buffering a bit of the anger and having some lightness in it and it not got all perfect cause of this weird mix of serious and humour as the overall picture. But how can you be so dizzy to look at it in such a shallow way. And you are quite comedy genius for that's exactly what a good friend would write to mimic playfully :) It's like you don't see the other side of it. Laughing isn't always to mock. So you see I'm an artist that even gets his own stuff if I wanted to. Cause I know there is no point in doubting an intution and it makes it quite narrow when you think about it but you know I can do that and let go then. I'm actually that genius.
You also completely missed the critical playfulness with the buzzers onto such criticalness. That in itself can only be humour cause it is negating itself. Atst it was...but you know I leave it at that. I couldn't be arsed to reply anyway but I felt like writing something.
Thanks for your explanation in the control knob on the fifth dimension of space continuum, I have theory based dreams of practical analysis to interpret common factors that are denominations of power plays that don't get recognised of what they are, in a disproportionate sense.
Gotta laugh, have a look at the these Lefty morons www.youtube.com/watch
Berlin's Lefty pseudo-anarchists, would fall for this as well, they are braindead Soros useful idiot puppets, but they don't know they are :o)))))) This is very funny and very telling www.youtube.com/watch
Berlin should be bombed by North Korean rocket man.
How can such a big city be so boring? If you're not into techno and fetish clubs it can be extremely boring here. Despite all cafes and bars. The people here are so boring and lack humour. They sit in bars and drink their beer. That's it really. If they feel really wild, they start shaking their heads to the music. That's it. Booooring.
I don't get it too. Almost 4 million people live here, but it's still deadass dull. I think, the root of the problem is that Berlin is capital of...What? Right, the capital of Germany. No more words needed. Germans are well known for their disgusting pedantry, boredom, maniacal following the rules etc. Should we really wonder?
It's a bit too spread out to feel bustling and major industries are split up in other German cities. Most major industries are concentrated in London and Paris in those countries, so it attracts all sorts of people and those cities are denser. Berlin has national politics, startups, music, and art. The last 2 can be found in other German cities as well. Munich also has some startups and the more established tech companies.
landlords here are complete ripoffs..l
I hope this helps someone here, but really, you are better off leaving, in the meantime this might make life easier for you, good luck www.ebay-kleinanzeigen.de/s-wohnung-mieten/berlin/c203l3331
Yeah, I'm sick of idiots writing dumb replies, I'm sick of neanderthals from some 'Stan country eating disgusting salamis substance on trams and trains, that makes me have to move carriages before I puke. 'm sick of Germans just staring at you and scoffing non-verbally at you. The rents only seem cheap for people from Manhattan and Brooklyn, but for everyone else they are sky high compared to wages. I'm sick of seeing doners, doners, doners everywhere, hey Mr Turk, use some imagination.Dealing with the sour people at the Auslanderbehorde. etc etc etc