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I'm a habitue of this site.
First of all, let me thank the creators of berlinhater. You've done really great job, guys.
And now...Here we go.
I moved to Berlin about 2 years ago. Before that I've spent 1,5 years in a small German village, which was hell. And then, after I've reached relatively high level of German, I decided to move to Berlin. I was fooled by plenty of articles with statements like "Wow, Berlin is so edgy, so cool, so underground!". I wish I would knew the truth before I've packed my things.
And what we have now?
Now my life is absolutely destroyed. I was warm, open and optimistic person. I am also an extravert. I love smiling, laughing, meeting new people, beautiful and interesting girls, having fun. But all my hopes and dreams were shattered like a glass.
I wanted to integrate into any social circle, but was ALWAYS rejected, and I still don't get why. I'm good looking guy, 6'3" tall, I take care of myself, I dress nice, have plenty of interests and almost always able to hold a good conversation. However, EVERY time that I tried to meet someone new, I've confronted the same facial expression - like "Who do you think you are? Meet? ME? No, because you're not cool hipster techno tattooed guy or Neukölln Turkish macho in them red sneakers". Surely I'm not, but is this makes me a bad person? Or am I unworthy to have friends because of that?
My self-esteem fell to the very bottom after numerous failures and ignorations. I got panic disorder, I began to hate myself. I thought that I was some kind of wrong person, that I was defective, ugly, boring.
I have not made an attempt to get acquainted with anyone for a long time, because as a result I will still be ignored and not noticed.
I had only one friend here - the best friend, the wonderful person, one of those whom you meet once in your life. But yesterday she flew away from here forever.
And now I will remain here completely alone, without a single friend and a single social contact. My colleagues are old people, they are older than me by 20 or even 30 years. We have nothing in common with them.
And the most terrible thing is that I can not even move from this damned, smelly Germany. My parents live here, and they are no longer young. I have to help them and support them, because they have done a lot for me. I can not just run away. But I can not live in this hell, all alone, without sex, fun or friendly conversations.
I do not know when I'll hang myself or throw myself out of the window, but I think it will happen pretty soon.
Berlin, du bist so wunderbar.
Dear Friend,
They, 'the Berliners' reject you because you were/are curious, fun loving and good looking as is your claim. Do not allow them to further pull you down to their level. They are afraid of you. If you must stay in verkackte Berlin because of your German parents then pull yourself together and stand tall - someone sooner or later will notice you - and save you. Don't strive to hang out with the evil conformed tattooed cigarette butt-smelly ugly b-yotches of Neukoelln or F-hain. What is wrong with hanging out with older people ? - someday you will be one - if you live long enough and Berlin doesn't kill you and your soul, you fool, you kraut!
I'm the writer of 30-year-old-cute-looking-yet-loveless-miserable-lady post.
I understand you %100. There was a guy I liked at my workplace. Now he's together with an ugly & gold-digger German female....German people are crazy. They are not interested in loyal, good looking males or females; they prefer lowest forms of living instead. No wonder you're loveless as well!
I truly understand each sentence. there is no solutions obviously , the only way is getting out of this pooping place or You should wear all black clothes like a homeless bitch. OMG, this city is , I don't know any other city like Berlin. and Germans are really horrible. ..
Rule number one: Never trust anyone in Berlin.
Rule number two: Never expect anyone in Berlin to be reliable.
Rule number three: Never, under any circumstance get romantically involved with a German. Trust me on that one.
Rule number four: If you break any of the rules above you're on your own, no one will give a poop about you.
Rule number five: When you find your a shell of your former self, run, don't try to recuperate your losses, run.
Rule number six: Don't expect that you will make anything of your life in Berlin.
Rule number seven: If you are fresh meat here, you will think I'm an idiot and loser, because "Berlin is great man, what are you talking about". Just remember, in one or two years time when the honeymoon period is over and you are completely sucked into trying to make it work here, you will be saying the same things I'm saying, only it will be with your tail between our legs, that's if you still have a tail or anything else useful between your legs.
Rule number eight: When you find yourself saying this: "It can't be a whole city that's fkked up, it must be me", turn around and run away faster than you can say "BlaBlaCar".
Don't say I didn't warn you. Good luck, you'll need it.
Ha ha ha, and you think they are h=gong to get out of debt by staying in Berlin, what a laugh, you are the stupid freak, not me, if you really think that is going to happen. You are the careless one. Probably a moronic Berliner.
Do you think the Berlin patron saint of derelicts is going to sprinkle some geld-producing fairy dust on them, get real, he's so busy running from derelict to derelict, he doesn't even have time to visit an ATM.
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Stop Complaining Guys.
Absolutely first class droll satire.
The problem with Berlin for me is that it's too transient, too many students and "artists" and not enough experienced real world people. The students are too busy, with studies and part time jobs and that leaves no room for spontaneity.
Leipzig, Munich or Lisbon, here I come.
Then never go to Kassel. It's most obviously the Pyongyang beyond all cities in West Germany. Emphasis on WEST.
Nothing gives me creeps more than wannabe, fake libshite german cunts. They travel to us once, and they know the constitution better than anyone else. They come back from us and don’t shut up on how fake american smiles are. They all gather at r/germany and downvote any minuscule criticism on their stunk shithole. Listening to their crippled autistic english makes me want to fire myself up.with that accent, their first questions to foreigners are either ‘how is your german’ or ‘where do you come from’. Oh and they don’t fret over asking ‘when are you leaving’
I’ve met 3 germans (all spent long times outside of Germany, not 6 months exchange) who we’re among the most educated and courteous people I’ve ever met. Except those people, the rest of them are utter trashes with no manners, no vision, no common sense whatsoever.
All those supposedly english speaking germans ( their language levels are not better than a1), god forbid they see an american or turkish. They will keep asking about trump or erdogan, and will stance their disgusting political correct face should you have any slight implications of support to any non mainstream opinion.
Even the educated germans such big time. Go to reddit, say you deny paying tv rip off, and see what happens. sexual act goat fornicator guinea pigs
And, by the way, I have been through the entire tertiary education system and can report that the professors I had were some of the most racist, nationalistic/euro-centic cucks I have ever met in this Godforesaken pit of dispair. They also think they are experts on the US, UK, China and India after spending 2-week guest lecture runs on adult erasmus grants (funded by the common man). These short-sighted idiots ensure that anyone with actual critical thinking skills does not graduate, except by faking assimilation with these masses of automatons.
These morons actually believe what Zionist-controlled Lefty media tells them to believe, if they actually had any spare money between them, you could sell them shares in the Brooklyn Bridge in a heartbeat, Berlin-Lefty should be a term in the dictionary to mean "Mindless, gullible moron".
What about Leipzig? As an alternative to Berlin ...Are there any jobs for international people ?
Pseudo-Lefties here are living in a dream-world Utopia. As the saying goes, "ignorance is bliss", as long as you have 35cent beers and cheap Polish clones of JagerMeister to et obliterated on, and then wake up and blame "society". Never met a more stupid bunch of morons, then the faux anarchists here, sorry, I mean Lefty-Facsists, who beat people up who disagree with hem, burn their cars and deface people's property with mindless graffiti and tags. I suppose we should feel some kind of compassion for them, or at least, pity.
Or lets say their prejudices based on stereotypes. And it's not just that. In a way that's actually a distraction cause often they don't have needs met in the group cause it's not properly functioning. Then they can be like zombies without it being neccessarily something serious. Usually they think of something human as weak and would act as though it was. That would be such a frame and they really believe that it was weak especially if you try to prove that it wasn't. I figured it's a good idea to say something, that doesn't need anything back. It usually leads to not holding back when you just say something unirritated or also expressively. Because once you're affected by those frames, it's kind of like tangled up with each other.
I give an example. One of these dizzy people talked to me in an infantizing way in a work situation. Something really absurd where she was presupposing something that is not even real. And I look at her and took her frame for a second. Obviously I'm a bit afraid of such and she laughs like a freaking moron as if she was right. But I replied: I don't know what you mean and I was not afraid anymore nor was I fighting the frame. Later I realized it would been good to put some energy against it and just feeling serious about it with anger and looking at her. But that only works when you perceive it the right way in the moment. And it really helps to write out expressions afterwards and to meditate on it, like training but it comes natural. Effectively she was sucking energy. I mean this is the serious version of it. There is other things like really perceiving the person as needy for example. Or things like karma, when you say certain things or lets say when you express certain vibe, low vibe...how does it make you feel? Realistically you could feel sorry for the person there, just as a side-effect of the perception obviously. When you act on this low vibe, it's just endless bad karma. But the actual point is how they treat themselves poorly by such vibe and kinda misunderstand themselves. My point being you can only feel according that what you perceive.
There were other times where I just got angry then, to not allow the person to suck. Like i felt it and I stuck with the facts. Usually people try to give you blame or such and I just felt there is no blame that I shud ever take, so I got angry about that and just went with it and it expressed as having clear focus on the situation and looking her in the eyes. Eventually I said relievedly about the minor issue: Well, that can happen :), but it didn't need anything back from her. All that being though a lower thing cause I shouldn't even "let" the person talk to me such way or take it serious.
Other times like this was such a crazy situation haha. It was at work and you know I'm packing stuff in a supermarket. It's very constraintful and everything has to be super perfect. And my team is really submissive to the people there overall. They get poop from the market and then they female dog on to the workers. So there was this freaking Cola packs that had foil around it, the ones who were on the shelves. I ask my colleague if it's okay to just put it in like that and he freaking says yes. You know what a trap :) And he also came to me to pack those wagons for the rests properly. But he said in a way where I really didn't feel like like doing it. But somehow I just did it and seconds later that captain of our team who is sucking up to the market people comes to me, lecturing me to pack it right, assuming I didn't do it. But I did :) and I replied What do you mean?! And he went Oh..uhm you know I mean overall! and he went away.
But then the chef stands before that Cola packs and shouts the name of our chef like In Werner, I don't know if you know this, it's a german cartoon or something like that. And she would tell him and he would tell me. And I didn't feel all that well. So I went there instead and said just the facts. I was told to leave them such way. But she had somebody on her side and the person went like THAT CANNOT BE!. I replied: Well I wasn't sure myself... Meanwhile that chef got there too but before they could say anything I said: So you want them to be unpacked? That's not a problem, I just put this foil off and it should be good then :) They still tried to give me blame and poop but it didn't work. You know that was rather something childish but it did it the trick to fend off the zombies.
In another sense it's humans and as for the first person I could have also perceived that she was actually showing me the way she was treated when she said: Watch out with these, so the chef not give you a lecture. And I wrote since it was by surprise I knew if i pause she would interpret it as fear which is what I was afraid of and then she freaking laughs when in reality I was offended that she views me such way. It was absurd. Later I felt really angry and after that I felt that this is all pretty low and I would just look at her and tune out and just don't even reply. But you see such a perception how she was treated isn't something like caring for her more than oneself but it's just kinda something to perceive.
So I'm not sure if I made a point but I just leave it that.
So, you are assuming an above position. That's interesting. I could say it's like with paitings, some really appear just like you said but I just don't really feel like it. I don't care if anyone likes it. I wrote how I felt and what I meant I don't even know myself which I did express also. I'm sure you would beat me on the low level and I'm sorry I can't help you up.
Yeah and Berlin sucks because whoever is writing that confused mess with the aid of Google Translate isn't clever enough to set up an online forum of his own, in his own language, though not original like so many things in Berlin...
He probably doesn't even know or speak his 'own language'. And that is why he is in Berlin because he was told it would be the place for him cuz it's the best place to be a....guess what ? - LOSER!
Ooooh I am 'mobbing him' Boo hoo hoo - call the PC Patrol ! Take cover in a 'safe space'...
You don't really behave any different than what I was writing about and pretty much helped me to clarify my point. And thinking in terms of loser and winner is really dizzy. That says a lot about you and your connection to yourself, your happiness with yourself. If you call that a winner then good for you but you know. And yeah you're not mobbing anyone but maybe yourself. You are like a leech who needs others to feel anything decent. I tell you what, I come from this background of the loser rail, because I rejected this stupid winner poop and I was always true to myself. And it's gonna be the new way and your freaking winner dumb poop is gonna go nowhere. In a way we are in the same team so to speak but that's surpassing your perception. I don't really hate people like you but atm you piss me off hard.
So after venting one feels better :), the point with the respressiveness. I was writing from a happy perspective, and then I find myself argueing with you, just because you misinterpret me. There is actually nothing to defend I realize, it only proves your frame. which is another lesson. You see we are teaching by example here :) Have a nice day lol
On a serious note, there is no reason to hate on such winner things because life has a natural winner thing, when you just enjoy what you do. So there is not gonna be such new thing, that was a bit black or white thinking. So in case it offended you I'm sorry. Obviously I was enabled by your role-inducing things. And I might been rather angry because I was taking a suggested role. And it's another good point to understand oneself better. Sometimes we are angry because of a disconnection and anger is a good thing anyway overall because it distances from frames. The lol was also about relief. And I'm writing this here for clarification of reality simply. So you don't think I would be laughing about you and get further reenabled. It's a bit silly anyway to assume anyone's identity when nobody knows anyone.
I can't believe people still think they're going to live the dream find a huge cheap flat and pursue a bohemian lifestyle when they move to berlin. How is it that this idea is still perpetrated ??????
It's considered cheap by western European and San Francisco/LA/NYC standards but anyone with half a brain can see that the typical Berliner's purchasing power is complete crap and that you have two choices with buying goods and services: extremely cheap, poor quality garbage where you are treated like crap or extremely expensive, mediocre quality where you are treated moderately better.
Berlin is a squalid hole.
Stop complaining, guys!
Yes it's cheap but Berlin is awesome cool and hip - here's why:
You can work like, right away for one of the best new companies of 2017: Deliverando it's a super innovative company and it's taking Berlin by storm - not only will you make a decent wage delivering food like pizza and burritos but you will also be able to spend it when you order your own pizza to be delivered by them after a long day of peddling pizza to others.
If shopping is your ambition there is a Lidl nearly everywhere, Berlin will be Paradise for you.
But Berlin has other interesting career options:
For those with culinary talents: why not open your very own a Dönerladen? Nollendorfplatz always has room for another!
-and you'll be able to exhibit your creative skills in your storefront window by displaying the lettuce and tomatoes you chopped up - this seems to really fascinated people in Berlin and the tourists go wild to see this - it keeps them lined up and salivating!
...or what about a becoming a HAIRCUTTER - there are not many of those in Berlin - right? -especially those catering to people who have black pubic hair all over their bodies and who walk bow legged - Allahu Akbar!
For those cynical Berlin haters this is gonna blow you away, like, for ever:
NOW you can be a START UP > this time for REAL, - those clever guys, in Silicon Valley are gonna show you how it's done!
YUP - it is really happening.
The new Google Campus in Kreuzberg is on it's way!
Those slick bay area hipsters realized that Berlin had a huge demand for education, after they mesmerized you with such products as Google Earth and Maps and taught you how to write in so many foreign languages with Google Translate.
Now they will take you to another level and soon you can truly be cool and awesome!
If your parents in Stuttgart can't pay your tuition, you can sign on the dotted line and promise to pay by 2050. But If you are not German - the German government will pay your tuition but the requirements are that you come from the middle east, are illiterate and have smelly feet.
Of course if none of those options appeal, then consider perhaps something which has been a major success not only in Berlin but all over Germany: it is the business of receiving Hartz4. You too can be in this business. It's easy, safe and convenient, simply register locally or have at least one child by some willing African or other 3rd world arrival - this is available 24/7 on any street corner of Berlin or even, well, anywhere in Germany!
So please stop putting down Berlin - the opportunities are endless here and lest forget we are all equal and deserve respect even when our earlobes have wobbling holes wide as our anuses in 'em.
This is not a judgement - just my thoughts on the matter. Thanks.
I arrived to Berlin a lively happy butterfly, 5 years on I am a loveless, depressed, brainwashed shell of a human being.
If it helps you could perceive that people assume you would be like everyone else cause they don't know anything else. Meaning the frames around who you are. Surely it doesn't replace anything needed but could help you to pause and readjust before you speak cause as you feel you speak or act.
Since the arrival of our middle eastern counterparts, the U7 & U8 have become breeding grounds for all sorts of nasty flus and viruses. Coupled with the ever dropping temperature makes for a pretty pooping winter (as always)
No where to sit on the train? Buy a dog, instantly shifts Burkah Ninjas
Left after 4 years in Berlin, now PTSD.
I hate Grmans. The worst are the West Germans. They grow up in some $hithole outside of Münster, their parents love them very much and told them they can be whatever they want in life and the result is they move to Berlin because they are so interesting and so very artistically talented. I hope you all get brain cancer and die a horribly painful slow death.
Totally , when go outside , there are tons of zombies. People who thinks berlin is cool that just tourists or losers .
I have left already although still a bit traumatized due to berlin experiences , because when I hear german , feel so disgusted.
How much traumatized!
How many berliners does it take to change a lightbulb?
36.
1 changes the bulb the rest make a 40min documentary about it.
What a website and here I was thinking I was alone. I have been in Berlin for 5 freaking years now, 5 freaking years i'll never get back. I pray for the day I can actually scrape enough money together to leave this poop hole and i'm not even religious!
I hate the Summer here, it brings out the worst people and the worst in the worst people, cunts everywhere. I hate Germans, they are so passive aggressive, they lack passion, humour, intensity and love! I know this is probably an inordinate fear of starting another World War, or building another freaking wall through the middle of the city, but come on! Show a little passion in your lives!
Berlin has made me a shell of the man I used to be....any more time here and I fear I may mutate into a German, or worse....an insufferable Berlin leftist cunt.
Berlin, you can pump more money and immigrants into this city, but no matter how much you scream "refugees welcome" you just can't polish a Turd.
Get me out of here!
Go to Leipzig before it becomes another Berlin. At least the people there are friendly and hospitable. To be quite honest, I oscillate between hate and pity for Germans, they've been dealt some pretty, pretty bad hands over the last 120 years. Manipulated by Zionists and taken advantage of by megalomaniacs in their own country and from around the world. Walls dividing them, feminists dividing them, walls coming down creating new resentments between them, the Depression and hyper inflation, two wars, repatriation, very high taxes, ridden with guilt, etc etc etc, no wonder they are so fccked-up.
If you're new here, my advice is to get out as quick as possible.
I know what you're thinking, "you're all losers on Berlin Hater". Everyone thinks Berlin is great when they visit or first arrive to stay, but gradually the reality will creep in and then you will try to meet the challenge and then you'll be sucked in, because your brain can't believe what's happening and you'll try to break the code, but unfortunately there is no Enigma machine, their is no code, everyone is totally lost, pretending they have the secret code that only they know.
Run for your sanity while you have a chance. Run Lola, run.
"there is no enigma machine".
Lol, spot the repressed Brit.
They are the real losers, cant get over the fact that 1945 was the last time they were on top.
Someone I know said they hate sylvester, because the fire works were like "Something from the Blitz"!
They really are the most irony free idiots of all.
if you wanna move to Europe and you don’t know poop about geography you move to Berlin.
Never been to Berlin but fornicate Germany it's seriously a depressing place. Everyone is so full of spite. Why?